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| Author: | jonno123 [ Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help Please! Dealing With A HB10 |
Ok well theres this girl I met through a friend. It all started when I was at my friends house and we were talking about this girl that my friend dated a few years back. Anyway we all got pretty drunk and somehow I got on the phone to her so I started talking to her and somewhere along the line I said she was attrative so she'd get the idea i was interested (yea AFC move but this was before I read The Game, Magic Bullet etc.) Keep in mind at this time the girl didnt even know who I was or what i looked like. Anyway i added her on myspace and that was it we never talked. I tried sending her a message but she never replied. Ok shes not interested, whatever. FAST FORWARD 2 MONTHS.... I found out a couple weeks ago she attends my college and the other day as I was walking into the cafeteria, she was there and she stared at me for atleast 5 seconds so I took it as maybe a good thing but didnt take it as an IOI and ignored it. Later that day i saw her on my bus, she was sitting in the front. Anyway I got on the bus and went home, thought nothin of her. When i got home there was a myspace comment from her asking if that was me she saw on the bus [slight IOI]. I started talkin to her and then started talking through MSN Messenger. And she actually admitted to me that she read the name on my buss pass as i flashed it to the bus driver and searched my name on myspace and she found my page [huge IOI and slightly stalkerish]. Anyway we start gettin into this talk about love at first sight and if its possible to fall for someone before you get to know them [IOI]. At this stage I think I'm in. Anyway we continued to talk about music, our weekend etc. for about an hour then she had to leave. Anyway I started talking to her today [2 days after our first conversation] and she would reply with one line answers and basically seems like she couldnt care less to talk to me. Maybe I said something wrong? I'm not sure. Anyway I just said that i have to go and I'll talk to her another time. After the other day when I thought she was totally interested, I thought I was on fire and she would be my girl in no time. Now it seems like Im just another guy shes not interested in. I'm in desperate need of help. She's always running through my mind and now that I think shes not interested, its really hurting. I think one of my sticking points is not being able to get into good conversations even though I did the otherday with her. I really just don't know what to talk about with her to get her to open to me and be interested. Plus I'm afraid of enterting the friend zone. She'll be in the cafeteria again on Monday and she'll be catching my bus. I know I'll need to talk to her but I'm seriously stuck on what to talk about to her and obviously her friends. I was a lot confident on doing this after our long conversation and all those IOI's but now I'm worried she'll seem uninterested when I talk to her in person. Any kind of help would be great. |
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| Author: | Macbeth [ Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:06 pm ] |
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hey dude, well firstly, I have the same trouble, I'm not really "liking" this girl but its the same situation like we've been friends for ages but she is really really I guess lazy, but shes got this wicked personality and is a HB9. Anyways its always been on and off like I get IOI's all the time from her but then she won't start msn conversations and won't organize shit to do or sometimes blow me off. When you explained your situation I thought of this girl, It might not be the same thing, but if this chick is a good looking girl she would have others guys after her and if she just "couldn't be bothered" talking etc then its not necessarily that she doesn't like your or find you interesting or whateva. I recommend defiantly keeping at it. Maybe try lay off starting MSN conversations or whateva with her and on lunch times etc if you make I contact try hold it until she looks away and maybe look at her body language when she sees you and when she knows you watching to when she isn't aware that your observing. Anyway, Good Luck man, keep me posted. Hope I helped macbeth |
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| Author: | jonno123 [ Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:30 pm ] |
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Thanks man, that did help. I think your right and when I talk to her in person I think I'll be able to communicate alot better since there will be body language and the whole face to face experience. I'm thinking of bringing up a few things from our MSN conversation when we meet and throwing in some teases and jokes. Hopefully shes a lot easier to talk to in real life and does open up because I know creating conversations get a lot harder when they don't keep the convo flowing, whether its because they're shy or just not interested. But from the IOI's I recieved the other day I think I have a good chance with this girl. Theres no doubt she'll be with her friends in the cafeteria so hopefully that will make her more comfortable with talking to me. Anyway I've got a few days to prepare, hopefully things go well and I hope things work out for you too. I'll definitly keep this thread updated as things progress. |
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| Author: | jsquared [ Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:13 pm ] |
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Well, if she was cross with you the other day. You could freeze her out on the bus and at lunch. Normally, I'm not pro-freeze out, but if she conversed like that I'd freeze her out. Plus, you must admit this is turning into a one-itis, which is never a good thing. You need to talk to other girls besides her to break the one-itis. Then revist the situation. |
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| Author: | clutch83 [ Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:34 pm ] |
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i would personally recommend you do a slight freeze, acknowledge her but sit with another girl, stike up a conversation or something, bring up the opinion test to her, you have read "the game" i would recommend askin her about courtesy when coming to a revolvin door, i think that would get a good laugh out of her, i know you would be sittin down but still it would get her attention and you can still act it out a bit, but yeah man, she would wonder why you are ignorin her and if you end up laughin with another girl ill get her attention the next day i would acknowledge her and bring up a conversation about something funny that happened to you the day before, stretch the truth if you have to just dont make it too obvious |
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