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| Author: | theknight [ Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | To be alpha and unreactive, how does it practically manifest |
Hey guys.. I have been reading about some inner game stuff, one of the most important mindset we should have is to be alpha and don't give a shit about how girls reacting to us.. I understand it as a concept, but when I am in field, I still make the same mistake over and over... From the surface, it is me running out of things to say even if the conversation is going ok, I normally eject. This can happen right after I open, when the girls aren't welcoming, I'd run out of things to say there; or it could happen in the middle of the conversation when everything goes pretty well but I can't think of what to say next. I keep thinking about being alpha and unreactive, but keep running out of things to say. I know I am still being outcome dependant, and still reacting to women, which is beta male behavior.. So, how can I practically eliminate these bad behaviors in field? Is it likely to keep thinking of being alpha and still run out of things to say and then panic? Is it a chicken or egg thing when it comes to being alpha and having things to say? Please shed some light here.. Thanks |
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| Author: | rexlexia [ Wed Aug 27, 2008 9:25 pm ] |
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The whole alpha thing isn't really a chicken or an egg thing really, it's more like pushing a snowball down a hill. The further along it gets the more it sort of rolls itself along until it is just going on it's own. The same goes for the conversation. At first be prepared to input about 95% of the effort into the conversation. This means you are going to want some solid DHV stories of your own to fall back on. As for avoiding panic when running out of things to say, the best advice I can give you will sound lame, but it's golden: Have a cheat sheet! Just keep a piece of paper folded up in your pocket with the titles of interesting things to say. If you find yourself struggling, simply pull the sheet out and take a look. When the girls ask what you are doing just reply "I'm reading what else I should say." If said unapologetically this in itself will generate a positive response and get the conversation rolling again. |
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| Author: | theknight [ Wed Aug 27, 2008 10:12 pm ] |
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Thanks man.. So, is it that knowing what alpha things to say next will make you feel more alpha and unaffected emotionally? Could it happen the other way around? |
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| Author: | rexlexia [ Wed Aug 27, 2008 11:37 pm ] |
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Yeah I definitely think that knowing what to say will make you feel more alpha, but feeling more alpha helps with your body language and tone, making what you say less vital to keeping you at high value. They really have a symbiotic relationship. |
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