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| Author: | pdiddle [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Trouble closing |
My friend and I had an acquaintance with a cute friend in town this weekend, and had them come over for a little party on Friday night - everything went well, we built some attraction and rapport and then let it sit to pick up the next night. So tonight they come over while we have other friends around, who eventually leave, so just the four of us are left. We play some drinking games together and things seem to be going really well, but after a while both me and my friend realize we need to somehow isolate - but we have no idea what to do. Eventually 1am rolls around and they decide to go home, although they literally went out and came back in about 4 or 5 times before finally leaving. We could tell they wanted to stay but didn't want to feel like sluts ... a) what are some good techniques for isolating our respective targets in that situation and b) how could we have salvaged things when they wanted to leave? Thanks guys - Paul |
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| Author: | BIGRED [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:51 am ] |
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To isolate first bring up somthing cool that you want to show her (a funny video, pic or whatever) and when the time is right take her and show her. And to keep them from leaving just convey more personality (magic, jokes, etc) so they will feel like they are gunna miss alot of fun and don't want to leave. Hope it helps |
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| Author: | Zarathustra [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 10:22 pm ] |
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Isolating in this scenario is no different from isolating in a club - "oh! before you go, there's something I really need to show you in (that place where we can be alone)" Having done this mistake myself a thousand times before, I know that if you're anything like me, you wanted to close but in all honesty got cold feet. They gave you loads of opportunity, but you stalled over stagefright rather than lack of a script. What I did was use NLP (such as swish method) to anchor closing to IOIs. Try and make it a spontaneous reaction - you get 3 IOIs, you instantly move to isolate or number close. Instantly, with no procrastination. He who hesitates, masturbates. You could have capitulated with a number close or offered to go in the taxi home with them. Hope this helps Paul |
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