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| Author: | Mylo [ Sat Aug 23, 2008 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | This girl from my school |
Alright. So there is this girl in my high school I got my eyes on. It's not gonna be easy because I don't have anything. Not even a phone number. And she's one of those people without a facebook/myspace etc. I don't even think she's kissed a guy before. Anybody have any pointers? |
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| Author: | tack [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 1:36 am ] |
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If she has never kissed a guy before then im guessing she is very religious or simply inexperinced and all you need to do is actualy talk to her. If she isnt reacting well bail with the "pleasure talking to you" line before your forever a creep. Honestly if your allways looking at her and almost aproaching her, by the time you do she will have her mind made up that your a creep. |
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| Author: | Mylo [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 5:49 am ] |
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She's not religious. I just don't think she's really liked a guy before. She's probably an 8. And as a plus she doesnt need makeup to look good. I've talked to her before when her friends are around, but I don't know how to make a move. Any advice? |
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| Author: | BIGRED [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 5:51 am ] |
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Since your not considering any of the openers on the forum then start with her interests it's pretty simple, find out what she is interested in then research it and your in. |
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| Author: | Mylo [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:10 am ] |
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Can you use the same openers at school as in the real world? School just seems really different to me. But thank you so much for all the help. |
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| Author: | BIGRED [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:19 am ] |
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you can take almost every opener and alter it to fit your personality it all depends on how you want to come across to her. Figure out what your style is going to be then alter your openers to fit you. |
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| Author: | Mylo [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:32 am ] |
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That's cool. I'm new to the game. Today me and my friend went out and opened to groups of people. We even started with a direct opener with a really good looking group of girls. We talked for a while, then we figured out they have boyfriends. But oh well. We just wanted to get started working on opening. So far I find this stuff really fun and I'm really excited to find out where it will take me. And as for the girl at school, I already kind of know her. I just don't know what to do after meeting her. I think she might like me, but I'm not sure. So that's where it's at right now. I'll try out an opener on her next time I am at school. |
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| Author: | BIGRED [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:42 am ] |
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Well if you kind of know her only use an opener to start a conversation like the twin brothers opener or something to get her talking about her interests so she will be comfortable to open up and talk about herself then find a good number close and go from there. |
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| Author: | Mylo [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:47 am ] |
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Alright. That's great. I'll let you know how it goes. |
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| Author: | Nogame [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 9:05 am ] |
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Sounds like a wallflower to me. Get to her before other guys do. If shes at all attractive other guys will notice. Honestly, if you can. Find a time where shes somewhat alone and start a super casual conversation. Slowly escalate from here. Go from casual convos and move up from there. Just build comfort with shy girls then eventually invite her out for some fun. |
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| Author: | slickmc123 [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:54 pm ] |
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game her in the form of when tgalking to her, tel her she like the little sister you never wanted etc, put the frame on it that 1. your an intresting guy and 2. you dont fancy her but your willing to tease her. You can show your intresting through conversation and general DHVs, then when she says something that teases you back, let her know that you think she is being a bit forward. Constantly reframe it that she might be comiong on to you, but as she sounds shy, dont do it all the time. The fact that maybe she has never kissed a guy, shows shyness, but she is also waiting for the guy to take the lead and responsibility. Follow the method of the game while throughout any interaction with her, lightly and for a short time kino her arms and hands when exspressing a point, you should basically escalate kino till by the end of the interaction she has hugged you at least after a decent amount of time talking to her, have a look around the forum for kino escalation techniquess. The fact that she hasnt kissed any1 isnt her fault, its the fact that males have never escalated properly so that she feels a kiss isnt that big a thing. hope some this helps slick |
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| Author: | Blues [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 2:52 pm ] |
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Is she in any of your classes? More info would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | Mylo [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 6:53 pm ] |
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She is in my english class 6th period, but she sits pretty far away from me so we can't really talk during class. She has a bunch of friends, but most of whom are girls. She's also quite smart which I like. Thanks for all the help. |
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| Author: | Luca_J [ Sun Aug 24, 2008 9:56 pm ] |
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Dont Tease Her Too Much,, Talk To Her,, But Dont Be Sheepish,, Try The Old Did You See That Girl Fight? Get Her Talking,, Then Say Ahh Well We Havent Talked Much Before Blah Blah Blah,, Just Lead The Convo,, Should Be Pretty Easy Totti;; |
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| Author: | Mylo [ Mon Aug 25, 2008 3:12 am ] |
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Could I be completely straightforward and just ask her if she wants to go somewhere or hang out sometime or does that not tend to work at school? |
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