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Author:  OMGsoOHapPy [ Fri Aug 22, 2008 9:55 am ]
Post subject:  Unblemished begginer PUA, where to begin?

Hey all,

I'm sort of new to PUA, i've read mystery method and richard la Ruina's natural seduction. Basically i haven't learnt a great deal about PU from books. I learnt alot from them don't get me wrong but i was expecting to get the book and become a master.

Anyways, i'm not a complete chump with girls. I've got a girlfriend and i've had a fair amount of girls in the past. Although this is probably because of my looks/luck. I don't want to sound vain but i'm quite good looking and i'm only 20, so it's pretty easy to get women by just getting drunk and going to a club and eventually talking to another drunk girl etc.

Only problem is this is just luck. I have no control over which girls i get. It's just the luck of the draw that night.

This is my problem. I want to be able to go out sober day or night and just get the women i actually find really attractive. I know i can't get with anyone i want even if i get good, but just knowing i had a fighting chance with the types of girls i like would be a dream.

Point is i don't really know where to start. Like i've said i'm 20 and i'm in my last year of university (which i've wasted as far as women go thus far). Where should i begin learning PUA in a logical way?

Like what advice would you have liked to have heard when you were at this stage?

Many Thanks

Author:  nowanda [ Fri Aug 22, 2008 12:50 pm ]
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hey...your question is pretty mind-opening.
this is my advice.

take this is a numbers game.aim to approach 10 women
that you desire and i guarantee you will get at least one of them.

after every approach try to associate your approach with mystery
method or whatever you re using and take mental notes.

the only way to learn this game is to work on your own case.you
have to combine theory and practise.the easiest way to
do it is approach a lot and read a lot meanwhile.you should
be sending 10 new questions to this forum next week about every
sticking point in your approaches.

Author:  ace_of_spades [ Fri Aug 22, 2008 2:26 pm ]
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Hey,

this is an excellent question that doesn't get asked often enough. If you expected to read a book and be a master, boy were you wrong ;-)

This shit takes a lot of time and effort before you even begin to see tangible results. But if you're prepared to invest the effort and take a few hits on your ego, you're in the right place.

The thing that set me on my journey was finding a wingman. We sucked ass when we rolled together and hardly ever got past openers, but we were there for each other and we kept each other motivated. Once you get opening down (might take a few nights, depending on how good you already are), keep on meeting other guys, preferably those who are better than you. If you look around the meet up and wing section and send messages to users whose style you like, you'd be surprised how many of them will be happy to show you a trick or two, provided you're not a pain in the ass when they take you out. If you roll with guys who are already better than you (not necessarily pickup gods, so long as they're better than you), you'll see your learning curve steepen. Just make sure you give them value as opposed to exclusively draining. If they don't have a good time rolling with you, they won't take you out again (why would they?!)

Just my 2 cents.

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