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| Author: | dark one [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 3:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Phone game. Help! |
Alright Im horrible on the phone and Im not sure why? Any ways I have a 10 who I picked up and she said she is calling me tomorow....I need because I never seem to have any thing to say on the phone. |
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| Author: | Drift. [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 4:17 am ] |
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thats cool |
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| Author: | Slipfinger [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:39 pm ] |
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Well I can tell you this I HATE PHONES not because I cant talk to people on them just that its so impersonal its like nothing this is what I say or do whenever someone tells me they are gonna call me; Hey...>general bs chit chat< line1. Hey im kinda busy SPAM ill give you a call a bit later. line2. I've gotta be honest I do hate talking stuff over the phone, im way more into talking face to face(which is true) just ask random questions and tell her you can talk about that whenever you meet. thats what I do and it works fine you dont want to be talking to much over the phone its gonna mess your game up whenever you meet in person I have my girl since like a year now and I still hate talking over the phone with her..sheesh phones are evil! SF |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 7:17 pm ] |
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if she said SHE will call YOU, then i'd say 3 out of 4 times she won't. thats just the way it is. in the future make sure you are the one to call her, when you haven't been talking too long yet. be positive though, and expect this to be one of the 25% chances that she actually will call. when you pick up and she says hello, go right into a DHV story about what's happening to you that day or that week. talk slow and articulate, don't rush through the story. think of it as slow motion - so if something else comes up to talk about, it will be a natural progression rather than an awkward and abrupt change of the topic. be doing something when she calls so you sound busy, and not like you were waiting around for her. use a false time constraint to keep the convo short and sweet, and end it when YOU want to, not when SHE wants to. say "i'll call you back when i'm done __(whatever reason for time constraint)__". Call her back then and do another quick DHV, and get right into setting up a day 2 beause you are so "busy". also another tip: make sure you are congruent on the phone to the way you were when you met her. in other words be the same person, or she will eject. you can thank another PUA here for that. his name is PanPan, and he's been helping me out with my phone game recently. |
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