Yes I have compiled a list. A lot of these things you might find answers to by searching.
iois-the-completed-list-vt12718.html?highlight
You can find the same information if you get the Venusian Arts Handbook as well.
Hope it helps
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| Author: | Dokstar [ Mon Aug 18, 2008 9:45 pm ] |
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Anyone able to help me compile a list of IOI's? I realize that i get quite a few IOI's when im trying to build an attraction, but that i really.. really, and i mean really suck and keeping track of them. Here are the ones that are obvious to me: 1. smiling 2. mirroring 3. kino - this just means physical contact ya? 4. sharing - last night this chick wanted to share her beer with me 5. eye contact 6. laughing (positive way) 7. ... what else? Side comment: I have just started to actively use mirroring and i am noticing HUGE results. Example: I saw this girl i know (imo HB8-9ish) chatting with this dude i dont know. It was a house party so i cruise around for a bit and an hour later the guy and her are STILL rooted in one position. Thinking she must be bored i rock up and start talking to him, telling him he is hilarious and that she is lucky to be with such a 'cool guy.' I didnt like him at all, but i figured why not ignore her a bit and make some cocky funny comments about him being cool. It totally worked, she is dying to get into the conversation, which i allow. I forget exactly how the conversation went, but basically the guy is getting a bit pissed that i have her laughing harder then he did in like 5 minutes then he has in over an hour. (back to mirroring) he starts on this big dialogue about House music and she gets into it and starts talking (mostly to the other guy). but when she does some hand gestures (about DJ'n or scratching or something) i mimick the general gist of the movements and i notice something amazing. JUST because i mimicked her, i took her attention OFF Of him and put it 100% on me. She was now mine again despite this guy's best effort to steal her attention. Now instead of staying with this chick, i wasnt going to try and take her home anyway, i use my elevated status to bust a few more 'hilarious' comments, get them both laughing, i tough her arm and back a few times just to keep the tension there and then i move off into a new crowd. that was kinda a rant, but the key things to notice are: 1. mirroring IS a powerful tool 2. Always maintain high social proof 3. If you have the IOI's push for more, in this case it was the kino bits **if you can think of more IOI's to note PLEASE list them.. i want to keep track of them all. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Aug 18, 2008 11:46 pm ] |
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Yes I have compiled a list. A lot of these things you might find answers to by searching. iois-the-completed-list-vt12718.html?highlight You can find the same information if you get the Venusian Arts Handbook as well. Hope it helps
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| Author: | Comrade597 [ Tue Aug 19, 2008 7:28 am ] |
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im pretty sure another one is when she starts stealing your stuff |
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| Author: | Dokstar [ Tue Aug 19, 2008 8:02 am ] |
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good call |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Aug 19, 2008 9:12 am ] |
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Touching her hair, going into kino, laughing when you are not funny. |
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| Author: | The Libertine [ Tue Aug 19, 2008 9:27 am ] |
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These are the ones I usually look for 1. She will scratch itches on her cheek, next to her nose, between the lip and the nose, and anywhere on the neck and collar bone. [This is my all time favorite] 2. Smiling 3. When she is actively trying to continue the conversation 4. Touching in anyway 5. Proximity/ if she allows you to enter into her personal space...(even if you haven't opened) 6. Hair flick 7. Attention 8. Hanging around even though her friends have gone somewhere else e.g. the bar or bathroom 9. Any compliment 10. Value Offering (another biggie) |
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