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| Author: | ?Trace? [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 6:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | O.K Were going to see SPAM >.< |
Alright im going out with this reallllyyy hot chick that asked me out at work because apparently this babe likes me  i wanna make it work what should i do/not do This is our kinda first time out with just us two and ive gone nowhere so far...soooo?
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 8:01 am ] |
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So don't go to a movie, that is quite possibly, one of THE WORST date ideas out there. You get to sit in a dark room, barely inches from each other, without touching (because you haven't made any progress in that area yet), without talking (because if you do you ruin the movie and you're a douche to both of you, as well as everyone else in the theater), FOR 2 HOURS!!!! After the first 30 minutes you're gonna be wishing that you could make some sort of move, advance things somewhere, BUT YOU CAN'T! By the end of the movie, you haven't learned anything about each other, you haven't shared anything aside from watching the same show at the same time (that's some serious bonding right there, might as well make the girl 6 rows behind you your new girl now because of it) and now because you spent all that time in close proximity, not touching, that only makes instigating kino, that much more awkward and difficult for both of you. DON'T DO IT!!! Honestly, you'd be better to take her on a walk through the suburbs than to a movie, that's how bad it is. |
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| Author: | natrino [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 4:14 pm ] |
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true cinemas are not the best first date ideas, but you can talk before the movie and after, if youve made a good start you could try holding her hand (kino) good choice of film though |
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| Author: | Reo [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 5:24 pm ] |
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Nothing wrong with going to the movies here's what you do |
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| Author: | madals [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 6:52 pm ] |
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Reo, i am actually laughing my arse off at that! brilliant! |
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| Author: | noseque07 [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 7:06 pm ] |
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well if she was the one that asked you to go the the movies go, but try to go to a mini-date before that. Tell her you will pick her up (or come pick you up) way earlier than the movie starts, that way you can do something else, something fun, could even be going to starbucks. That way she'll be impressed that you actually took charge of the date and are doing what you want to do, also if you are good you'll get some kino action that way when you are in the movies you just gotta focus on the movie, maybe hold hands. After the movie pick up where you left off before the movie, and analyze if you have a chance |
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| Author: | Astro [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 8:54 pm ] |
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Typically a movie isnt the best place to take a girl on a date....but i agree with noseque about picking up extra early so you can build some more comfort and just go from there. |
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| Author: | abc1555 [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 9:13 pm ] |
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From all the movie dates i've had, none have ever failed me at the end of the day making out. Just flirt a little while buying the tickets and going inside, and then when you do sit down just be bold and put your arm around her and start kino'ing more and more and lead up to a kiss. |
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| Author: | ConspiracyTheory [ Sun Aug 17, 2008 11:42 pm ] |
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i'm with Rye Lee movies (in the theater) blow for a first date, save it for when she's your girlfriend. now watching one at your pad on the other hand is a good way to go, so just tell her you already saw it and you want to watch some movie you rented instead. |
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| Author: | jsr52 [ Mon Aug 18, 2008 2:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | a few things... |
never go out to a movie with a girl untill you are married.... no attraction can occur At the movies instead find out what movies she likes and suprise her by having movie night at your house. if she actually likes you, she will have no problem coming over. hit up foodnetwork.com and prepare a simple meal for her. if thats too much have the fridge stocked with variety of goodies. |
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| Author: | Bonita [ Mon Aug 18, 2008 3:12 am ] |
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Yeah SPAM is forever long....like 2 1/2 hours! Take her for icecream or something before if you still plan on going to the movie. Don't take her to dinner...I believe dinner and a movie is wayyy to cliche for the first date and a quick way to be boring and typical. Reo that was simply halarious. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Mon Aug 18, 2008 12:03 pm ] |
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Everyone's talking about the wrong thing lol It doesn't really matter what the date event is going to be. It matters what angle you're gaming from. Logistics matter. She asked YOU out. Focus on qualifying and a smooth kino escalation. In MM terms, you're gonna want to skip to A3. Don't forget push/pull and using the 2 steps forward 1 step back thing with kino and stuff. As for logistics, a movie at the end of the night is perfect because anywhere there's a movie playing, there's a mini seduction location right there. I wouldn't recommend full-closing in a crowded theater, but hey what you end up doing is not up to me lol. Theater make outs are fun, especially when you've been kino escalating throughout the movie to build up anticipation, letting go of that tension at the end credits when the two of you start a tongue war. As a side note, I can make movie dates work just fine as long as the girl and I sit where the separator between us can be lifted and tucked away. In fact, people sitting around me probably end up hating me a lot by the end of the film lol. To me, "movies are bad dates" is a limiting belief. A movie is simply a tool. YOU are the tool bearer, so YOU are the determining factor of whether or not the date goes well. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Mon Aug 18, 2008 12:11 pm ] |
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Quote: Yeah SPAM is forever long....like 2 1/2 hours! Take her for icecream or something before if you still plan on going to the movie. Don't take her to dinner...I believe dinner and a movie is wayyy to cliche for the first date and a quick way to be boring and typical.
I'll take you out to dinner and a movie and I can guarantee the best time of your life.
Reo that was simply halarious. |
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