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| Author: | Pulsebeat [ Fri Aug 15, 2008 12:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | The real art of cold reading? |
Hey guys, I've read many topics on cold reading in PU but they are for me just a part of cold reading (referring to the questions where you pretend to know much about her). I've done them in a small way to build my frame about what I look for in a woman and that she lives up to my standarts, but I've never heard about a PUA using the true power of cold reading. I mean by that the art of analysing people by their behaviour, making a 30 seconds profile and try to array your game to it. For some people you can just smell the arrogance flowing out of them but I'm sure there are so many other thinks that normal people don't see which can help you. I think it must be a powerful and interesting weapon to be able to do this, but I can't find a way to learn these. I would like to hear your thoughts on cold reading in that way and how do you apply it correctly and build into your game? Pulsebeat |
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| Author: | Bonita [ Fri Aug 15, 2008 3:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The real art of cold reading? |
Cold reading is a powerful and effective way to pick up women. After all, everyone's favorite subject is themselves! As far as how to be better at it....this will come with time just like other PUA skills. Open a lot of women with this, see what works, see how specific/generic you have to be to pull it off. There are different types of women and the way they dress, stand act etc...Girls who make eye contact and stand in an open stance without crossing their legs and folding their arms are usually more outgoing. She if she is the center of attention in her group of friends, does she laugh/ smile a lot....All these non verbal cues are the key to cold reading and the more you practice and research them, the better you will be at doing cold reads. I was at the bar last week and a guy tried to open me with a cold read. I was waiting with an empty glass to get another beer so I was looking around and he was walking by me, stopped (as in a way that he was debating whether or not to talk to me) and he asked what I was drinking. I admit, I was a little ahead of myself, but I relied with "Oh someone is already getting me a drink"--because they were. He made a good neg: "I wasn't going to buy you a drink, i asked what you were drinking because I can tell about your personality by what you drink." So I said "miller light...what does that mean about me?" and he said I was a hippie. I said that he was wayyy off but to try again. He had no back-up and he lost control of his nerves. I gave him a second chance, but I was forced to make an awkward exit. He did not observe anything about me, because from my outfit alone, you could tell i was not the hippie type. So just practice practice practice and observe observe observe. If you are a little off don't worry...as long as there are some true things in there, girls will sort it out for you and accept the things that are true and ignore the things that aren't--it is called a confirmation bias. |
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