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I asked her if there was any other way of talking to her she said no because her phone was across the room
First off, what kind of excuse is that? Is she really too lazy to walk across a room that is prob 11x11 to get her phone??Secondly, if a girl really wants to cut ties with a guy, she will just not respond. That means no calls, texts, facebook messages etc... You gave her an ultimatum (sp??) i.e. call me or we wont speak again. You are making her chase you, and if she is really pretty, she is prob used to being chased. She might want you to be slightly offended by her comment so you show interest by chasing her back (bc you were trained not to show too much interest). She prob wants to be the prize and if she only has your number, it is her seeking you. Also, her bf may play into this. If she pursues you, she may feel guilty like she is betraying her bf, but if you pursue her she is more of an innocent bystander.
Not 100% sure, but I am a girl so if a guy says that in the future I have to call him to talk to him and I am not into him, I just wont respond---have a nice life dude, ya know. But most girls, including myself, like the guy to pursue us. It gives us reassurance that we are desired. So we will stay in contact, but find some way to make you chase us.
Hope that helps...and sorry that was so long for such a simple concept! haha
