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| Author: | onemosphere [ Wed Aug 13, 2008 8:57 am ] |
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so basically i went on this date with a stunning HB the other day to go shopping downtown in the city. she's attracted to me, as we've mutually established between eachother because of this whole fiasco between her and her friend both liking me, and now i know she wants a relationship which i also dig, however, i pulled back and said we should only 'see' eachother because we dont know eachother all that well, and she agreed. So it seems pretty layed out however at one point with the C&F and kinda felt as if i had crossed the line. I got handed a flyer by some guy on the street and glanced at it, while walking with her, after i was done i handed it to her and said 'merry christmas,' nice grin came up on her face and she took it and tried to put it down the back of my shirt. shes got a big set on her chest and was wearing a top that showed her cleavage, so i took the flyer after getting it from my shirt and jokingly tried to get it in her cleavage without seeming like i was groping her. I can't recall what she said, but it wasnt anything bad, and i calmly responded was 'we'll wearing a top like that, your pretty much just asking for it (for me to throw the flyer in)' and she says 'oh yeah? whats that supposed to mean?' and i say 'nevermind' and kinda just take the lead in entering the store. the rest of the day was great, but i felt like i shouldnt have taken it that far, and i didnt even check to see what her initial reaction was t'ill i cut her off. so anywho i never did apologize (dont wanna DLV), but i was wondering if there was some method to give out the message, yet still maintain your status. any ideas? |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Wed Aug 13, 2008 10:26 am ] |
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When you see her next time, look her in the eyes, grab her hand, kiss her gently in her cheek, say:"you are great person" and then continue you perfectly normal conversation as nothing ever happened. These, sort of "confusing" acts, done out of the blue sky, makes miracles in further development of relations. Marco |
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| Author: | onemosphere [ Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:16 pm ] |
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sure i suppose that could work, sounds rather unique though. and it works with the whole idea with romance- romance only works if there is attraction there, which will then be amplified if used right? but aside from that situation, if im out for a night on the town tearing up the city, and i cross the line, is there some kinda C&F line we can think of? maybe you say it and she gives you the 'did he just say that?' look, could 'you're way to sensitive' work? kinda busting her ass on somethin |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:28 am ] |
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Quote: sure i suppose that could work, sounds rather unique though. and it works with the whole idea with romance- romance only works if there is attraction there, which will then be amplified if used right?
Of course it is unique. I never post an advice which I read somewhere, only the genuine ones that I used on filed.Girls always like when something unexpected but nice happens to them and these sort of things confuse (in a positive way) they minds. Even if there was no attraction before, this can create. Or at least, if she`s little bit mad on you, she won`t be afterwards. Quote: but aside from that situation, if im out for a night on the town tearing up the city, and i cross the line, is there some kinda C&F line we can think of? maybe you say it and she gives you the 'did he just say that?' look, could 'you're way to sensitive' work? kinda busting her ass on somethin
I always prefer to hug them and something like: " I hope I didn`t offend you or something?". And after some time, go overborad again (don`t be rude, thats not what c&f is all about), and again some hugging.Hugging is perfect kino move, it works as a magic charm, I love it. |
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| Author: | onemosphere [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:20 am ] |
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word thanks for the tips man but this HB is in the bag for sure now. another problem sparks though, i obviously mean something to the chick if she insists on hanging out with me without any real approval or encouragement from her friends. some are a lot better than others, but she says things will be 'shaky' on her end with us. i can totally understand why, because basically her good friend who i met before her fell for me, so we hung out a couple times and then i gamed her friend and got hung up on her and it was mutual. not to mention we got caught just about to do stuff at the girls party who liked me first, which made it worse. but hey, we've all been there. we all saw that girl we liked run off with some other guy and wanted to murder the knob right? anywho, aside from just being nice around her friends and stuff when i get the chance to hang with them, are there any techniques to get back into the good books with them? i dont want this relationship to be one sided where she can come to my social network anytime easily but i cant on hers |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:29 am ] |
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You can talk to that hurt girl and explain her how you didn`t plan to hook up with her friend but things just happened. (girls in general adore that romantic/movie like mumbo jumbo crap  ). Tell her also that you think she`s great girl (amusing, positive, great to hang with) and that you definitely doesn`t wan`t to loose her friendship and company. She will probably accept it and after she accepts you, all of the gang will.
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| Author: | onemosphere [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:36 am ] |
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haha already talked to the hurt girl just like you said- 'hey, so to answer your question- yeah, me and ____ are seeing eachother. sorry for this whole mess, and i never meant to hurt you at all. your a cool gal, and i still wanna be friends with you, i hope you understand' and then she just tries to pull the whole fuck you, im pissed off, i cant believe one of my own best friends betrayed me card on me and i just stick it out and apologize. meanwhile, me and the gal im seeing now talk about this whole thing as its happenin (via txt). shes loving me for it and keeps reassuring me that we'll make it through this. another thing that gets me is the hurt girl takes it all out on my target and not on me, so i kinda stepped up to the plate and said she cant do that to you when we're in this 50/50, am i right? |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:53 am ] |
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Quote: another thing that gets me is the hurt girl takes it all out on my target and not on me, so i kinda stepped up to the plate and said she cant do that to you when we're in this 50/50, am i right?
Well, get used to it, it`s the way it usually goes. They are friends for way longer you know both of them and they will be friends way afetr you drop out of the picture (only if you don`t marry one of them  ). They will not sacrifice they frinedship over a guy.About that angry friend, now its all very hot but be nice to her and after a while, she`ll get it over and stop being such a pain in the ass. Just be patient! |
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| Author: | onemosphere [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:57 am ] |
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haha sorry man but im not sure if i phrased that right. the whole situation is this crazy love triangle. my target already sided with me over her friend cause the friend got all hurt obviously and started going haywire. the target and i are trying to get back on her good side but right now its not happening. all of their other friends are just watching and wanna stay neutural, but i kno i dont have a good image on me |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:04 am ] |
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I undestood you, you phrased it out good. I will repeat: angry one will be more mad on you then on your target since they are friends for a long time. Be nice to her and after a while, angry one will calm down and accept it. After her, all other friends will accept you and your relationship with target. |
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