PUA Forum :: Sarging at a mall/shopping centre

Are you kidding me?
You have as many choices as the shops that are around there!

If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject

The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener

Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted).
Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair.
You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?"
Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!)

If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc"
You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?"
(then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted"

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Hey so you can use the first one a couple times to get into a sarging mood or get over approach anxiety? Also what can I insert instead of Starbucks because people my age dont really go to starbucks much I think.

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This is horrible.. why would u say sorry.. what are you sorry for,being human?

You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?"
(then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted")

Author:	one4romeo [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 3:13 pm ]
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Anyone have any good openers for day sarging in a busy shopping mall? I struggle to open in a mall environment. Help a brotha out with sum good suggestions??

Author:	searchofsunrise [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 4:17 pm ]
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Im struggling on this too

Author:	Lucky D [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 4:22 pm ]
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When I'm at the mall: There's always beautiful women working at the stores, so I go in and ask them about something, their opinion or say that i'm searching for something. ex: I'm looking for loafer shoes, do you have any? What are loafers really? or once I was going to a maskerade so I needed a sort of zoro suit. I asked her if she'd seen the movie, then I put many twists (ex:The problem is I've never seen any zoro movies/ what kind of hat does he wear?/ etc.) Hope it helps. I dont' find it easy in shoping centers either. Good lucky with that!

Author:	Fame2Advancement [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 4:35 pm ]
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Are you kidding me? You have as many choices as the shops that are around there! If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted). Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair. You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?" Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!) If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc" You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted"

Author:	searchofsunrise [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 4:43 pm ]
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Quote: Are you kidding me? You have as many choices as the shops that are around there! If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted). Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair. You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?" Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!) If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc" You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted" I can really see that working for me man...starting small, then building on as I get comfortable. thanks for the tip!

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Author:	Neo-the one [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:23 pm ]
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Start off with the hot store clerks to get into a social mood. Once you sarged and possible #closed a few, then hit the patrons. I always number close at a mall. Just remember after you get the number, don't leave. If possible (and anything is) bounce to the food court for a soda, pizza, lemonade, etc. it is so easy to get an instant date in a mall or shopping center that it isn't funny. You are in a public venue, and if you have built enough comfort, they know that they will be safe.

Author:	one4romeo [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 6:32 pm ]
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Thanx Neo and Lucky D... this is the only place I have had troubles with. I like the warm up sets. I used to do that in the night clubs when I was younger and we used to call it "pigging" - a bit derogitory I know now.

Author:	BigLo [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:30 pm ]
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Quote: Are you kidding me? You have as many choices as the shops that are around there! If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted). Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair. You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?" Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!) If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc" You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted" Hey so you can use the first one a couple times to get into a sarging mood or get over approach anxiety? Also what can I insert instead of Starbucks because people my age dont really go to starbucks much I think.

Author:	Neo-the one [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 9:12 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Are you kidding me? You have as many choices as the shops that are around there! If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted). Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair. You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?" Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!) If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc" You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted" Hey so you can use the first one a couple times to get into a sarging mood or get over approach anxiety? Also what can I insert instead of Starbucks because people my age dont really go to starbucks much I think. Dude, you can put just about anything there. Just think of a store or shop that people your age go to, and plug it in there. And take the "sorry" out of the opener. What are you sorry for?

Author:	Voltage [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 9:17 pm ]
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Quote: Are you kidding me? You have as many choices as the shops that are around there! If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted). Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair. You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?" Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!) If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc" You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted" This is horrible.. why would u say sorry.. what are you sorry for,being human?

Author:	Neo-the one [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 9:29 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Are you kidding me? You have as many choices as the shops that are around there! If it the first time opening say- "Hi, sorry- I'm looking for a Starbucks is there one around here?" girls gives directions- "thank you" eject The second time extend the interaction. Reapeat the above step- but DONT EJECT. Say well you know what is it best to have a Cappacino and a cookie in the same place. Or should I get a take out and go to (cookie joint)?" Indirect opinion opener Then Ask the next girl same Question "Is there a Starbucks around here?" girl gives directions "Cool- hey listen You look quite interesting- I like the way you accessorize with your earings/make up/ dress its quite funky" (notice Im not hitting on her Im saying she looks "funky" non-sexual- say it "deadpan" like you are unintersted). Girl "Well thanks!"- plays with hair. You "Well I have got to meet my friend in 30 minutes (false time constraint) for a coffee as we are going out clubbing/cinema later" (shows you are socialable) We are buying new clothes. Since you know how to dress can I get a female opinion on a few shirts I have been eyeing?" Girls realise you have only 30 minutes and will usuallu so "Yeah why not- where are we going?" (make sure you know where!) If you are brave u can extend the interaction to hours/ how? Simple pull out your mobile at 30 mns and (if she is showing attraction towards you) laugh "Oh my god- way to go! My friend just text me he got really drunk last night and is sleeping it off!" It was his cousins birthday/wedding etc" You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted" This is horrible.. why would u say sorry.. what are you sorry for,being human? Exactly, Russian... Never, and I mean NEVER apologize during an opener

Author:	Zennixx [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 9:38 pm ]
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Quote: You- "Listen I'm going to get that coffee now- so it is up to you- What do you want to do?" (then you can proceed to sit down and get better "aquainted") Best thing to say is to go indirect and say "I'm still going down for the coffee shot for my weekly cup, so you can tag along if you'd like". Shows your not so needy and if you played your cards right she should say "yeah sure" most of the time.

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