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| Author: | Skaterforlife [ Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting to know someone |
Im having some trouble When I approach women I usually ask those boring interview questions How can I change that? Im not a boring person and for me its hard not ask those questions because I dont really know them |
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:32 am ] |
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Be interesting! 1) You can make the questions sound less interview/interviewee with just a few simple changes in phrasing. 2) Take each question deeper, find what's good about things (nb. not what's bad). make guesses as to why she does/is/wants whatever the answer was - playfullness! 3) Talk about yourself - extend each question this way and then it's 2-way conversation which are so much more fulfilling. |
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| Author: | Facher [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:04 am ] |
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Think of it this way: Conversation is about the exchange of value. Each question requests value, and each contribution gives value. Interview = being needy of value. Instead, ask her a question, and then contribute. For fuck sake, Mystery could talk about how the MP3-format works inside of clubs to HB's. As long as you really think it's amusing, she will listen. And - if not... well, you didn't blow it.. since being an interviewer would have blown you out faster. |
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