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| Author: | theknight [ Thu Jul 31, 2008 10:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need some help on conversation skills |
Hello guys I have found a new sticking point in my game, which is conversation. Recently, I have been going out a lot with group of friends. I have not been doing cold approaches and I met a lot of girls throu friends. I found myself in situations like having no clue how to participate in ongoing conversation. A lot of time my friends will be engaging the girls and I have no clue what to do meanwhile, so I will just sit there feeling bored. I have no clue with most of the stuffs they talk about. Later, I talked to some of the girls that my friend is not hitting on, but also find myself in situations that I don't know what to say next after some normal conversations.. Can anybody help? |
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| Author: | De-Icer [ Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:20 am ] |
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this is one of my major syicking points, you stood there really wanting to say something and its not about lack of confidence because you would say something if the bastard sentance would come to your head! what i usually do is just have a couple of beers but not too many as youl end up making a fool out of yourself, and i fnid i starts to flow, and end up being quite suprised with my self |
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| Author: | keruli [ Thu Jul 31, 2008 5:59 pm ] |
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Ok to get u started, if u have no clue what to say in a conversation ... then dont say a thing ... however DO participate in the conversation, by bodylanguage, by just listening, nodding or shaking your head. When u do find a verbal remark to make in the conversation, make it ... actually talking makes topics(or remarks) come faster then trying to think of one. Avoid at all times "beeing bored" couse when u are , u look bored and when u look bored ppl will start to think u ARE boring. Finally try reading some articles on how to have a proper conversation, about anything at all. Try talking to as mutch ppl as possible and u will see it will only go more easy. after a looong brake , hope to have been of some assistance keruli |
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| Author: | theknight [ Thu Jul 31, 2008 7:33 pm ] |
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What about situations like you are in a group of 2 girls you just met, and they started talking to each other and just keep going on and on? In this case, it is really hard to follow their girly talks. So is it a good idea to interrupt and bring the topics back? In this case, if I interrupt and get their attentions back, I just don't know what to say next? Any advice on this? |
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