Assuming you asked for her number , when she says 'I have a bf'. Just say
'Thats not what I asked'
Well, you didn't ask that now did you.
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| Author: | rain63 [ Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to deal with "But i have a BF" |
Ok, so i was running a set generally well and i go to number close and i get the "but i have a bf." I'd never gotten this line so far into a set, usually i'll eject if they're not responsive and whatnot. I just responded "well i never said i wanted to have sex with you, i was just wondering if you wanted to XYZ (i think it was going to another party later this week)." this made her laugh and she gave me a number (dunno if its real or not) Whats the best way to handle this as far into the set? |
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| Author: | Zato-1 [ Wed Jul 30, 2008 4:04 pm ] |
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Dude, if I were you, I wouldn't have said that sh!t about not wanting to have sex with her. You have just put yourself into "Friendzone" Honestly, you could've responded with, oh ok, or I don't care. Don't apologize for being a man. You could've plowed more after as well. Did you give your SOI? This is the key factor, without SOI that number close is useless even though you get a day 2. You need to escalate as fast as you can. |
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| Author: | Nightfox [ Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:53 pm ] |
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Just don't give a shit. Just proceed with talking as you're just not there to get her, but to be social. |
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| Author: | Diaz [ Wed Jul 30, 2008 7:20 pm ] |
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you should've just ignored it and continued whatever you were doing. |
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| Author: | TheAce [ Wed Jul 30, 2008 7:38 pm ] |
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Assuming you asked for her number , when she says 'I have a bf'. Just say 'Thats not what I asked' Well, you didn't ask that now did you.
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| Author: | Archangel White Rose [ Wed Jul 30, 2008 10:06 pm ] |
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You did good my friend, getting her number should be evidence enough for this. As for LJBF zone, you didn't LJBF yourself, you LJBF her. Not wanting to have sex with her will only make her want to have sex with you more. |
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| Author: | bigjamiemac [ Thu Jul 31, 2008 10:53 am ] |
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the first thing you should have done is not had said you didnt want to have sex becuase yes you just got put in the friend zone..then if she gave you the number you should have called in on the spot and busted her balls if it was fake...but hey non the less you did alright to get the # close ne ways.. |
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| Author: | tynacorp [ Thu Jul 31, 2008 12:04 pm ] |
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You did good to get the number bro. If its a real number and should you get into the LJBF zone just try to spin it to your advantage. She has friends that you can game too. |
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