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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Mon Jul 28, 2008 9:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | I time-bridged and set up a day-2. stay in contact til then? |
Used solid game on SATURDAY night and picked up a HB8 - Advanced from A1 to C1 smoothly and received serious IOI's - Escalated Kino properly and we couldn't keep our hands off eachother - #-Closed and was K-Closing ALL NIGHT with her. We were now acting very LTR-like and were holding eachother and holding hands throughout the whole night. - Changing venue would have been too burdensome, but it was a really big bar, so i changed scenery with her as much as possible within that place. - Worked for and received approval from her friends. - I then had to leave but made sure i timebridged with her before that. We discussed a day-2 venue for us on WEDNESDAY. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I left the bar (because my ride was leaving)... ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - I text her that night and said get home safe and let me know when you do. - I got no response so I was worried about flakege until at about noon she sent me a very warm text message using a pet name we designated and apologizing because it got too late and they got something to eat. i think this is legit since she did leave her cell phone in her one of her friends' car. - I text back with her pet name and said no worries. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is where i'm at now... ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- All the strong IOI's she gave me, makes me want to re-calibrate and do AFC-like things. Is this common with such a successful pickup? I am very tempted. Does anyone reccommend texting again or calling before day-2 is here? Or should I just freeze her out, let her dream about me, and then contact her on day-2? Thanks for the advice guys. |
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Tue Jul 29, 2008 1:40 am ] |
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Sounds good. It's all about overwriting bad habits. There's no problem in speaking before Weds but don't remain in constant contact - you aren't a couple yet and shouldn't be until after you've qualified her more outside of a bar (preferably inside your bedroom?). If you're struggling with your inner AFC then your better option will be to minimise contact - call her tuesday night/weds afternoon to double check your plans. stay succinct. |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Tue Jul 29, 2008 1:59 am ] |
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Quote: Sounds good. It's all about overwriting bad habits.
thanks man i'll let you know how it goes
There's no problem in speaking before Weds but don't remain in constant contact - you aren't a couple yet and shouldn't be until after you've qualified her more outside of a bar (preferably inside your bedroom?). If you're struggling with your inner AFC then your better option will be to minimise contact - call her tuesday night/weds afternoon to double check your plans. stay succinct. |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Fri Aug 01, 2008 1:08 am ] |
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UPDATE: I waited til Day-2 day (Wed) to text her and this is how it went down: - ME: You owe me for all those dance lessons i gave you! (approx 30 mins) - HB: Humm and what do i owe u? (approx 30 mins) - ME: I'll think about it, but right now i'm very busy at work. Lets talk later : ) (several hours later) - I call and there is no answer, i leave no message -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- (2 hours later HB texts me) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - HB: Hey (pet name). How was work? Sorry for not answer before i was at gym. (approx 1.5 hours) - ME: Work was exciting, handling a very big case. At the mall now. What's new with you? (approx 30 mins) - HB: Nice. And nothing new with me, just a trip planned for the weekend. I'm going to XXXXXX with some friends. (approx 1.5 hours) - ME: I've been there and i won't lie, it was pretty boring. You need to plan better trips (pet name)! (15 minutes later) - HB: Haha maybe next time (pet name) can help me. Oh and it doesnt matter i'm still excited for the trip, just for going out, do something different it will be fun. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I freeze her out til the next day ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - ME: Hey (pet name), i shut by phone off when i was at movie last night. When i got out it was late, so i didn't want to wake you up no response from HB I'm glad i posted the whole thing here because looking at it, i think i realize where i made a mistake. She finally responded less than 30 minutes for the last text message and i pushed and punished her. I think i have to adjust my pus/pull in the future. If anyone else notices anything i did obviously wrong please let me know! i'm very open to any criticism since i am relatively new at being a PUA. Also i'm open to any suggestions for what i should do now. |
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