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| Author: | psychosylocibin [ Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girls showing sudden disinterest after intense interest |
So I have posed a question about this girl I have been seeing for the past 2 weeks to other (non-pua) boards and have gotten different indirect answers so I figured Id post it somewhere where people are more versed in the art of attraction. Basically I started dating a girl within my group of friends (I'd say a 7) for the past 2 weeks. She was giving me good signals and constantly told me how much fun she was having. We all went up north to a cabin this past weekend, had fun, hung around my friends, did not act too clingy during the day. However, on the ride home she was acting extremely cold and would not take any sort of kino (hand holding, kissing etc) , or did it passively if she did. The more I think about it I may have come on too strong the previous night by being too close to her when she wanted to sleep, albeit she seemed to like it when I did get close. So I was wondering if it is possible this one thing could have completely ruined my chances by making her unattracted or annoyed by me literally overnight. BTW this is definetly turning into a one-itis but and I have other women I could see to move on. I want to know for sure though whats up before I do so. Keep in mind this girl has never had a bf before and only has been on a few dates. Thanks for the input. |
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:41 am ] |
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How did the previous night go? You may have turned her having fun into something serious (sounds like you were making a big effort to be close to her on the way home - probably acting very different) Depending on what you guys have been doing over the 2 weeks prior, you may have lost the attraction side of things and fallen into the LJBF pit. If you've been LJBF'ed then just cut her out for a while, focus on other girls and come back to it when you can use the phrase "I haven't thought about her for a couple of weeks" The other thing is potential buyers-remorse. You didn't build enough comfort with her and so now she feels bad about it, or feels bad that she enjoyed it. Don't apologise. Take a step backwards - stop touching her as though you're together ect. |
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| Author: | psychosylocibin [ Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:51 am ] |
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The previous night me and bunch of buddies in the group got pretty drunk by the lake; She seemed pretty concerned and told me she was frustrated and worried about everyone (that something bad might happen) and was visibly distressed (Crying, calling parents etc). I comforted her a little bit and told her I had to go take care of my friends. I came back later and we pretty much layed next to each other the whole night (spooned etc, I didnt try to makeout with her or make any serious moves because of her state, I feel like she wanted to relax). As for the car ride home, we both slept half the way (we were both tired). Previous to dating, I had not talked to her much within the group (its a big group of about 12). Only occasional light banter. |
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| Author: | David~ [ Tue Jul 22, 2008 10:05 am ] |
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Women are most vulnerable while in emotional distress. Eliciting good feelings while they are upset is very easy and you could've and should've kiss-closed her that night. Because you didn't hook her that night she probably got a case of buyer's remorse and makes nothing of that night and when you tried getting intimate with her again she felt turned off. |
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