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Author:  Mr Exclusive [ Sun Jul 20, 2008 7:13 pm ]
Post subject:  The correct way of entering a club?

What is the most correct and non-needy way of entering a danceclub that will convey every chick in the house that im the one THEY should approach! :wink: Well not exactly but for my game to be smooth while approaching HB:s?

1-How can i navigate the entire place from the door to the bar, without looking needy for pussy?

2-How should i go by when loosing my friends in the crowdy club, without loosing social value?

I want the best answers because this is the key for succes in clubs! :)

Author:  Mysterious-Mind [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 1:24 am ]
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First of all, enter the club SMILING, and a body language of confidence and that you are there to have fun. Trust me, a smile can do bloody wonders when entering a club ;)

I suggest you bring some girls with you (the hotter they are, the higher social prove you will have).

Do a walk around with your friends (girls will notice you, so make sure you don't look around as if you are hungry for a woman :P).

Open up on sets ASAP. Try and target big groups of girls who seem they are enjoying themselves. Even if they are not your type, do it as SHB's will notice this and you will gain social proof and DHV in their eyes.

Most SHB's will hit the dance floor, so hit the dance floor with a girl or two. Dance close to the SHB that you are interested in and then move on from there ;)

Author:  Hopeless Romantic [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 1:40 am ]
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You want to enter with good body language. Smiling is always good. As soon as you enter approach a set and open them. You don't want to walk around the club scoping everyone out. People will notice this and if they see you circumnavigating the place they will assume you have no friends and lower your value. If you want to walk through the club, walk as if you have some place to go. Don't just mosey around the club. Walk with a purpose.

Author:  Nogame [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:25 am ]
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Bring chicks with you is top priority when possible, they don't even have to be sexual with you, they can be your sister/cousin/whatever as long as they are are fairly good looking, you're not going to make out with her in the middle of the club. Don't pull the "tough guy" shit when you walk into the club, always look like you're having fun. Don't act like a pimp with your girls, make sure the girls look like they are having fun, same with you.

Author:  Illusun [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 10:45 am ]
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While the above answer are probably closer to the right answer, I'll put my two cents in which contrasts a little bit.

I've worked on my facial expression when entering a club. I'm smiling with my eyes but not with my mouth.

My eyes show a sense of purpose as in I know where I am, I know what I'm doing there and I know what I want out of my time there.

My body language will be congruent with this.

I tell myself "I own this place, nothing here is new and nothing impresses me but I still have a great time being here." (you should think this when you walk into every room for the rest of your life).

I B-line for the best available centrally located table/spot/whatever. After my friends and I "set up camp" then we take the long scenic route to the bar, making sure not to look like we're scoping chicks out.

By this time women have noticed you and your friends and you'll be getting eye contact. Sometimes I'll use this to open, other times I'll just return the eye contact but won't say anything, keeping the mysterious aura around us.

The most important part is to never look like you're scoping out chicks. NEVER

My biggest issues is setting up this whole "we own the place" image only to have to wait 15 minutes for a bartender to get our drink orders. grrrrr!
I could use the opportunity to open my first set but if I don't stand there and stare at the bartender like "hey mutherfucker, take our order!" then it'll take him 30 minutes. This is only in very crowded bars.

Author:  jurupa [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The correct way of entering a club?

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What is the most correct and non-needy way of entering a danceclub that will convey every chick in the house that im the one THEY should approach! :wink: Well not exactly but for my game to be smooth while approaching HB:s?
By walking thru the front door normal.
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1-How can i navigate the entire place from the door to the bar, without looking needy for pussy?
Via GPS.
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2-How should i go by when loosing my friends in the crowdy club, without loosing social value?
Send a rescue team after them.
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I want the best answers because this is the key for succes in clubs! :)
Aside from my smart ass comments and what others have said. Walk in with confidence and be upbeat. Your there to have fun. As far as not looking needy for pussy don't be desperate. If you lose your friends (which may happen), don't worry about your sical value because I highly doubt it will effect it. Most people loose their friends in crowded clubs anyway. What really matters is how you deal with being on your own without your friends. As long as you remain calm and confident in approach girls without your friends near by you do fine.

Author:  Hexxus [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 4:34 pm ]
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Now this is something I partially learned from a socializing guru and parially from a Mystery segment I found on youtube-

Enter the place and sort of stand in front of the doorway. That way, the door "frames" you and makes you look more like a prize. Stand up straight and look aproachable. After looking around, make a gesture like you know someone in the bar already. Then go in and mingle.

Author:  fsidontknow [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 4:58 pm ]
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Most SHB's will hit the dance floor, so hit the dance floor with a girl or two. Dance close to the SHB that you are interested in and then move on from there ;)
whats a shb? thanks

Author:  smoosh [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:09 pm ]
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Most SHB's will hit the dance floor, so hit the dance floor with a girl or two. Dance close to the SHB that you are interested in and then move on from there ;)
whats a shb? thanks
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Author:  Mr Exclusive [ Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:25 pm ]
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Thanks alot guys, your answers are very helpful!

I hope im allowed to ask more questions in new threads without anyone getting annoyed hehe :lol:

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