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| Author: | LoreHungryGuy [ Tue Jul 15, 2008 2:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Does pickup only work on complete strangers? |
hi again, I just thought of another question. Since I'm still in high school and an afc, I am in the "damage-control"/"let's just be friends" zone with most of the girls in my class. Is there any hope to change that, or do I need to look to girls that don't know me, outside of my school circle? thanks |
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| Author: | Nogame [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 7:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does pickup only work on complete strangers? |
Quote: hi again,
Bump, I would like to know about this to. A few of these HBs ive met before learning all this PUA have sort of moved me into friends zone. I wanna know how to reverse this.
I just thought of another question. Since I'm still in high school and an afc, I am in the "damage-control"/"let's just be friends" zone with most of the girls in my class. Is there any hope to change that, or do I need to look to girls that don't know me, outside of my school circle? thanks |
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| Author: | natrino [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 12:32 pm ] |
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I dont think its wether know the girl that puts you in the friend zone i think its your personailty, dont worry guys its happened to me too. you just need to tease her, make her laugh, dont be all polite and let her walk all over you thats what puts you in the friend zone, i dont know im only starting out and am going on what ive learned maybe more experinced puas can give better advice. |
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| Author: | madals [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 3:17 pm ] |
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The reason LJBF is called a zone, is because its somewhere ur put. If u havent meet a girl, ur not in a zone, so all u have to do is get put into 1 (if she is an HB 10, ur going for a differnt zone to say some1 ur not attracted to). Now, when u already know some1, ur in the LJBF zone, that means, b4 u can become more than that and be considered in a sexual way (as in seriously, not just she thought of u naked once) u have to get out of a zone, then into a new zone (twice as much work). The reasons most people say give up when u have already got to LJBF is because its twice (if not 3 times) harder to make a switch than move zones. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Just because it is hard to do, doesnt mean its impossible..... Question is, do u want to put the effort in? |
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| Author: | LoreHungryGuy [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 6:21 pm ] |
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ah, thanks a lot I get it now, but I still have a question. Let's say that I want to put the effort in (the girl in question is "the one of my dreams"-ish). How would I go about getting out of that LJBF zone? I'm just confused because I don't think the "1.Attraction, 2.Comfort, 3.Seduction" steps would work here. We're very comfortable together, so would I just have to build attraction, or how exactly would I approach this? thanks |
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| Author: | GenghisKhan [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:42 pm ] |
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If you act like her friend she will treat you like a friend. I know it's so much easier to listen to the girl bitch about her family and guys, and be her friend, but that is not to goal of pickup, the goal of pickup is sex, and if you want sex don't be her friend be her lover. |
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| Author: | Raver [ Thu Jul 17, 2008 6:53 am ] |
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the problem is you built comfort before attraction, as an AFC i have made this mistake many times, i believed in respect of personal boundaries until they are comfortable enough and all that shit. not now though so now, you have to DHV, A LOT! you're gonna have to make it seem there are aspects of your character she never knew about you. a talent or skill you never told her you had... you gotta make her attracted toward you and want you... let it be known that you want something more than friendship |
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