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| Author: | smittey65 [ Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:46 am ] |
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Sup players, I work at Hooters (lucky me right haha) and while I generally don't really "sarge" persay while working, I like to run game just to see what works and what doesn't, its good practice. I play the game with all of the girls pretty much but there is this one girl who im 99% is really fuckin into me. Im talking IOI's like crazy, everytime im around i can just feel her eyes on me, constantly starting conversation, major eye contact with that "sparkle" most of the time were talking, smile after smile after smile, playing with her hair, laughing at everything i say, touching. I got her number and had her over to hang out with some of my friends one night after work, and she drove 30 min. home to get a swim suit and come over. anyway long story short i got her in the hot tub alone and we actually had a normal conversation for the first time, i threw in some kino, but i had a hard time ramping it up to the kiss ( more comfort was needed i think ), so anyways shes leaving and i should have kissed her but i didnt, i dont know i was drunk and not thinking straight. so i call her up like 4 days later for a date, but she has this jewelery party to go, so i made the common mistake of telling her to call me afterwards... no call obviously. i decided to just chill and not be needy with, it and lo and behold she calls me for no reason at like midnight like a week later. since then i dont really initiate any contact and she calls or messages me. my question is this, sometimes i throw in C&F remarks about us being together/ implying that she likes me/ she can't have me, you know nothing serious just messin around, and she kind of starts acting funny about it, like giving me a "what are you talking about look", all the IOIs are there, is she just she just unsure or confused about how to respond to something like that? protecting herself? should i even move towards another try at day 2? |
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| Author: | GenerixBanshee [ Fri Jul 11, 2008 10:26 pm ] |
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Wouldn't advise picking up at work, could make things difficult for you. Also there always the chance (hwoever unlikely) of a sexual harrasment case or something. |
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| Author: | Captain Tightpants [ Sat Jul 12, 2008 3:05 am ] |
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I noticed that some forms of C&F (like giving them shit about being attracted to you) don't work well with some girls, mainly the shy or insecure types who are already used to people picking on them or giving them shit. It could also be that you aren't doing C&F at the right level of moderation, but I don't really know how good you are in that department. |
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| Author: | zeeck810 [ Sat Jul 12, 2008 4:08 am ] |
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man i'm kind of in the same dilemma. I like to run game on girls at work and stuff. Right now im trying to get this girl that gave me all the IOIs and we hanged out(just the two of us) and i blew it(read my post 'what next' for details). Now she's really distant. I'm gonna try different stuff on her. If you figure out how to fix this tell me about it. |
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