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Author:  TopThenSwap [ Thu Jul 10, 2008 1:33 am ]
Post subject:  (Hopefully) A good start, but what should i do now?
Hi everyone, this is my first time posting, and I'm new to the game.

So here's my situation.

I went out a couple days ago with a couple friends and a couple girls. I started working on one, and even managed to get away from the crowd and go 1 on 1 with her. The conversation was moving well. But before i could make any more progress. I got cock blocked, really really bad. An acquaintance, who had no intentions of flirting with her, completely interrupted us, literally stepping between us. I played it cool, and luckily i didn't break him in half. But after the dumbass left, it felt awkward. We couldn't pick-up on where we left off. We still made small talk, but i didn't feel that i made much more progress since the block.

What i did accomplish was that she invited me to come to an upcoming party with her. But i had to decline since i won't be in the city during the time the party will take place (SIGH...).

Since I couldn't go to the party, I invited her (and her friends) to come out with me (and my friends). It seems like she's coming, but now I'm stuck not knowing what to do now. Since I'm going to be with her the whole night, how should i catch her attention again? What are some steps that i can use to eventually lead to a kiss-close?

Thanks for any answers and tips! All is appreciated.

TopThenSwap
Author:  Smarts [ Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: (Hopefully) A good start, but what should i do now?
Quote:
Hi everyone, this is my first time posting, and I'm new to the game.

So here's my situation.

I went out a couple days ago with a couple friends and a couple girls. I started working on one, and even managed to get away from the crowd and go 1 on 1 with her. The conversation was moving well. But before i could make any more progress. I got cock blocked, really really bad. An acquaintance, who had no intentions of flirting with her, completely interrupted us, literally stepping between us. I played it cool, and luckily i didn't break him in half. But after the dumbass left, it felt awkward. We couldn't pick-up on where we left off. We still made small talk, but i didn't feel that i made much more progress since the block.

What i did accomplish was that she invited me to come to an upcoming party with her. But i had to decline since i won't be in the city during the time the party will take place (SIGH...).

Since I couldn't go to the party, I invited her (and her friends) to come out with me (and my friends). It seems like she's coming, but now I'm stuck not knowing what to do now. Since I'm going to be with her the whole night, how should i catch her attention again? What are some steps that i can use to eventually lead to a kiss-close?

Thanks for any answers and tips! All is appreciated.

TopThenSwap
First off, I would talk to that "acquaintance" one on one and tell him you did not appriciate what he did to you. Do this now before he does something like that again to you. If some one tries to do something along the lines of that again you shoudl address them right when they get near you... say something like "excuse me, can you see I am talking to someone? Can you tell me whatever you have to later?" When you say "someone" in the first line you should grab the girl and pull her around the "acquaintance" and next you you. Thats a great Kino move and will help illistarte the point to him.

If you want to kiss-close you need to build the kino now. Just be touchy feely; hold her hand, put your arm around her shoulder, everything. It seems like you are a little on the younger side (about 15-18) so you might want to just go in for the kiss instead of using Mysterys Kiss Technique or anything else like that.

Also if you really like her and she likes you and you Kiss-close I would recommend that (depending upon how you feel) asking her to a one on one date instead of going with all your friends again. You will have the alone time you want without anyone interrupting it. But it would be hard to do that now considering that you already asked her if she wanted to hang out with you and your friends.

Good Luck and hope that helps

-Smarts
Author:  TopThenSwap [ Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:44 am ]
Post subject:  Thanks
I really appreciate the adivce, I'll try it out tomorrow.
Thanks, TopThenSwap
Author:  Infamous110 [ Thu Jul 10, 2008 8:50 pm ]
Post subject: 
Tap his shoulder, introduce yourself, and shake his hand.

As you shake his hand, move subtly around him and take your place back between him and the girl. Alternatively, throw an arm around her (if you're at a stage where you can do this) and invite yourself into this conversation from her side.
Author:  QB1 [ Thu Jul 10, 2008 9:12 pm ]
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One word bro: BOUNCE... you're taking her out again and you wanna build comfort quickly and reignite whatever that cockblock killed. The best thing to do is hit multiple venues and suddenly you are the guy that has excited her most without actually fucking her, i seriously recommend bouncing to different venues especially with a large group because this also avoids intruders to your set. And just like the other guy said sit the cockblock down and talk to him.
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