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| Author: | D-Magic [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 3:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | creepy...help! |
hi all. here's the deal... i'm a newbie pua in highschool. got inner game down pretty good. i am working on meeting women everywhere, and even sarging with my friends once or twice a week (they are into improving too), and being c+f and whatnot. however, i feel that my slow uncreepiness needs a little boost. so...what does it mean to be creepy? whenever i ask people, they give vague responses, or just say "well it means you are creepy, you know." i never understood what they meant, as i have been creepy all my life, and am realizing it and getting much less creepy now. post your thoughts please! |
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| Author: | Smarts [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: creepy...help! |
Quote: hi all. here's the deal... i'm a newbie pua in highschool. got inner game down pretty good. i am working on meeting women everywhere, and even sarging with my friends once or twice a week (they are into improving too), and being c+f and whatnot. however, i feel that my slow uncreepiness needs a little boost.
Creepy is a very vague word and can mean many different things. Often times people say creepy when they mean odd. I am not sure how you are creepy if I have not met you, but if you want to be less creepy (I think) the best thing to do is to observe other people objectively and compare their daily routines, expressions, etc. with yours. Maybe you are too hyper, too laid-back, or maybe you just word things wierd...
so...what does it mean to be creepy? whenever i ask people, they give vague responses, or just say "well it means you are creepy, you know." i never understood what they meant, as i have been creepy all my life, and am realizing it and getting much less creepy now. post your thoughts please! |
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| Author: | D-Magic [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:22 am ] |
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i'm unusually tall (over 6'5) and i have been told by girls that they think i am looking down their shirts while talking to them because of the height (lol), but am considering getting sunglasses to help solve that problem...good idea, or do sunglasses add to the creepiness factor?? also, might it be considered creepy for a guy in highschool to approach and start a conversation with a random girl, even if the approach is delivered great? i know from experience that the deliverance of the approach is very important, but it hasn't seemed enough to overcome the wall of creepiness i encounter when dealing with girls in the highschool spectrum... |
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| Author: | Smarts [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:00 pm ] |
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Quote: i'm unusually tall (over 6'5) and i have been told by girls that they think i am looking down their shirts while talking to them because of the height (lol), but am considering getting sunglasses to help solve that problem...good idea, or do sunglasses add to the creepiness factor??
Don't get sunglasses, I think that would add to the creepy factor. The fact that you have been accused of looking down girls shirts tells me that (chances are) you are standing a little to close for their comfort. Also it tells me you are probably facing them directly possibly even leaning forward.also, might it be considered creepy for a guy in highschool to approach and start a conversation with a random girl, even if the approach is delivered great? i know from experience that the deliverance of the approach is very important, but it hasn't seemed enough to overcome the wall of creepiness i encounter when dealing with girls in the highschool spectrum... To provent situations like this you should try to approach girls that are sitting down. That way you can sit down next to them while being close, on their eye level and not directly facing them. Also you should lean a bit backwards and see if she leans in toward you (IOI). Another thing you bring up with is the fact your in high school. Girls like guys have their own little groups that they hang out with and can get spooked when a total stranger approaches them. You can get around this though by acting like you think you have class with them or have seen them before. For example: You see a random girl at High School... approach You: Hey, I went out last night and totally forgot to do my math homework. Can I see/copy yours? HB: Um, I don't know you and Im not in your class. You: You sure? There is this one girl that looks just like you... blah, blah, blah |
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| Author: | Smarts [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:03 pm ] |
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Quote: i'm unusually tall (over 6'5) and i have been told by girls that they think i am looking down their shirts while talking to them because of the height (lol), but am considering getting sunglasses to help solve that problem...good idea, or do sunglasses add to the creepiness factor??
Don't get sunglasses, I think that would add to the creepy factor. The fact that you have been accused of looking down girls shirts tells me that (chances are) you are standing a little to close for their comfort. Also it tells me you are probably facing them directly possibly even leaning forward.also, might it be considered creepy for a guy in highschool to approach and start a conversation with a random girl, even if the approach is delivered great? i know from experience that the deliverance of the approach is very important, but it hasn't seemed enough to overcome the wall of creepiness i encounter when dealing with girls in the highschool spectrum... To provent situations like this you should try to approach girls that are sitting down. That way you can sit down next to them while being close, on their eye level and not directly facing them. Also you should lean a bit backwards and see if she leans in toward you (IOI). Another thing you bring up with is the fact your in high school. Girls like guys have their own little groups that they hang out with and can get spooked when a total stranger approaches them. You can get around this though by acting like you think you have class with them or have seen them before. For example: You see a random girl at High School... approach You: Hey, I went out last night and totally forgot to do my math homework. Can I see/copy yours? HB: Um, I don't know you and Im not in your class. You: You sure? There is this one girl that looks just like you... blah, blah, blah |
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