i say if its going to cause you problems then dont..
but if not then id be all game
haha
i currently have a situation like that too
and i am gonna keep a little connection with her
and just play it by ear, see what happens
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Sat Jul 05, 2008 9:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | newbie here looking for some advice. bfdestroyer? |
i met this pretty girl last week, she has a bf. i texted her and occasionally threw in a call to see if she wanted to hang out and show me around since i recently moved to houston. yesterday she said she couldnt hang out because she was with her boyfriend that night for the 4th of july, but she continued to text me. her boyfriend is overlyprotected as she described and they broke up that night because he thought she was cheating on him because she was texting me a lot. should i now go for the kill or something? sounds like im a complete bf destroyer. help! |
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| Author: | phorgot10 [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:47 am ] |
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i say if its going to cause you problems then dont.. but if not then id be all game haha i currently have a situation like that too and i am gonna keep a little connection with her and just play it by ear, see what happens |
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| Author: | Zennixx [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:43 am ] |
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Go for it. She will be butt hurt about the boyfriend being a jackass, so she will be vulnerable for some game. |
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:55 am ] |
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she hasnt answered to any of my texts. i sent her one about noon. do you think shes not answering because she doesnt want to talk about it or what? |
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| Author: | Zennixx [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:01 am ] |
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If she hasn't answered your texts it could be of 2 reasons: 1. She can't due to some problem 2. She doesn't want to hear about you (which I highly doubt because she was texting you from the getgo throughout her whole 4th of July night. So if she doesn't respond then move on to another HB. |
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| Author: | hoangtung [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:01 am ] |
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She's now yours to take, but do it quickly. Don't play the nice guy cause you think she's in a bad mind state, tho. Go and game her, lead her to forget her ex. quick before she goes begging the dude to come back, he could be high on hormones lol. for the text thing, how about you give her a call? don't remind her about her break up tho. ;p |
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:10 am ] |
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hoangtung, really nice answer.would i come off as desperate or attached if i gave her a call even if she didnt answer my text? |
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| Author: | Konfusion [ Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:11 pm ] |
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have you followed on any RSD stuff? OK, well correct me if im wrong...but if you want to call her then do it and dont give a shit about what she thinks. IF she doesnt answer it because she thinks ur desperate/needy, then it's already too late for you... IF she does answer it, then she'll only think ur desperate/needy if thats how your self comes through over the phone. Im going to tell you the same thing ive told everyone in all of my recent responses...work on ur inner game. if you had strong inner game then you wouldnt give a flying fuck how this turns out, and that self would show through...just by posting here with your request, you are probably coming through to her as desperate without even realizing it. ACT dont think. Then evalute where you fucked up afterwards. Lather, Rinse, Repeat with other girls and hell, even the same girl...chicks forget about your AFCness in under a week if u ignore them lol. -Konfusion |
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 3:33 am ] |
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well she texted back and it said "dont talk to me by" what does that mean? |
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:21 am ] |
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anybody? |
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:22 am ] |
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anybody? |
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| Author: | Smarts [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:25 am ] |
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Quote: well she texted back and it said "dont talk to me by" what does that mean?
It means exactly what it says man. "Dont talk to her"I am guessing her BF made her choose between you or him and she picked him. This is why I try to avoid girls with BF because stuff like this happens. Move on though. Find another girl to show you around Houston. |
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| Author: | alexle92 [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:27 am ] |
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if i run into her at drivers ed or randomly should i make eye contact or say hi or something? does this mean shes mad at me or just taking commands from her boyfriend? |
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| Author: | Smarts [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:24 pm ] |
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Quote: if i run into her at drivers ed or randomly should i make eye contact or say hi or something? does this mean shes mad at me or just taking commands from her boyfriend?
I think you should try to talk to her, but DO NOT run game on her. Just talk to her as a friend, tell her you didn't really want her to break up with her BF you just enjoyed her company and liked her as a friend.You will be putting her in the LJBF zone. Now, you are probably asking why... Here is why: If you do not talk to her or make eye contact with her she will inevitably forget about you and move on. If you game her it will probably upset her and will be a major turn off that you are still trying to break her and her BF up. If you become her friend you can still talk to her and hang out with her. Then like most relationships, her and her BF will probably break up and who will see turn to? You!! Then you just have to run a little game on her and she is yours! |
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| Author: | Patience [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:36 pm ] |
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i agree with smarts. just chill act like u have a million other girls that she can be replaced with. dont game her though unless u wanna get shot lol. i guarantee the b/f said "blah blah blah leave him alone blah blah blah" and if u push it she will probably tell him. dont worry though, if she really likes u her b/f wont matter. just wait it out and be friends with her but dont be too much of a best friend. dont talk to her about he breakup and dont get too emotional with her or nething. if u dont want to be in the LBFZ then dont place urself in it. u can still be friends without doing it that way. Patience |
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