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| Author: | Birdoftruth [ Sat Jul 05, 2008 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl insanely likes me but no date... |
Ok so this girl who I happened to have a chance meet with at her first day of work (we both work at Grocery mart in dif departments) really really likes me. I have met with her on her break every day for the past week and she tells all her friends how she thinks i'm cute and how she really likes me. Only problem is I can not get her out on a date at all. She lives with her parents and they don't want her going out with other guys (she used to cut class in New york to hang out with prior bf) and they (the family) always do stuff together everyday (she's from Trinidad). I figure if she wanted it bad enough she would go out on a date with me. I can't figure her out at all. Should I keep talking to her or try to escalate this crap physically. I also think I might be in husband category because she wants serious long term and she told my friend she wants something to lead into marriage, which I have no problem with as I am looking for that too. FYI she broke up with her last bf to get with me |
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| Author: | Hopeless Romantic [ Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:15 am ] |
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could be that you're just being too available for her. That you're not being enough of a challenge. Are you always asking her out and then she says no? What about trying to be more assertive about it? Saying something along the lines of "Hey I'm going to xplace on xday.....you should join me" And then escalate things from there. You could also try just being direct about it. "Look, i know you like me, but I still can't seem to get you on a date. What's the deal? From now on, if you want a date you'll have to come to me for it" I dont' know how good that line is. And if she finally does come to you to set up a date, don't jump at the chance. Remember that you're the prize. Keep her wanting more. |
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| Author: | Birdoftruth [ Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:01 am ] |
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Quote: could be that you're just being too available for her. That you're not being enough of a challenge. Are you always asking her out and then she says no?
I'm thinking that too. See here's the thing. Her friend told me she wanted me to ask her out so I did the second day. Well there's this other girl at my work who is infatuated with me that I blew off and she is Jealous of the girl that likes me and told her that she doesn't want to see her hugging me or anything. She used that as an excuse and no dice. Well now apparently she is kicking herself as she told told quite a few people that she was stupid and nervous and has subtly told my friend she wishes I ask her out again. Should I hold out? if so until what/when?
What about trying to be more assertive about it? Saying something along the lines of "Hey I'm going to xplace on xday.....you should join me" And then escalate things from there. You could also try just being direct about it. "Look, i know you like me, but I still can't seem to get you on a date. What's the deal? From now on, if you want a date you'll have to come to me for it" I dont' know how good that line is. And if she finally does come to you to set up a date, don't jump at the chance. Remember that you're the prize. Keep her wanting more. |
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| Author: | Hopeless Romantic [ Sat Jul 05, 2008 6:00 am ] |
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My advice is to flirt with her some more for a few days. Maybe do some kino. Pump up her buying temperature. Then after a few days of teasing her say "Okay, I know what happend last time so I'm going to give you another shot at a date with me. I'm going to x place at x time" or whatever. I would say if she doesn't got for it then just do a freeze out or move on. I feel if you do a freeze out first though that she will just lose interest quickly. |
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