You didn't exactly fuck up, you just gave up too easily. Persistence is very important and in this situation it was definately called for. She didn't tell you to fuck off or call you a pervert, all she said was that she "wasn't like that" and it scared you off. It's called a shit test, and unfortunately the reaction you gave her in response was what she expected - so, now you're now sitting amongst the other normal guys she's dealt with in the past. No biggie though, you'll know for next time. To give you an example of how you could have dealt with her, this is what I would have done... bear in mind, what works for me won't necessarily work for everyone else and I'm not gonna claim it works 100% of the time for me either. Nobody has a perfect success rate... yeah, I've been rejected my fair share of times and it's all part ofthe game. If she rejects you, don't take it personally - some girls just aren't looking for anyone when you meet them.
Girl: I'm not like that, sorry.
You: Not like what?
Girl: I'm not easy/I'm not a slut etc.
You: That's good, I don't like easy girls. What makes you think I was coming onto you anyway?
(that'll throw her off balance like a mother fucker.)
Girl: Blah blah.
You: Nah I'm just messing around, of course I was hitting on you! Why else would I be talking to a girl I think is sexy, seriously? You know what's up so I'm not gonna insult your intelligence and pretend like I wanna be your friend, I got enough of those. I'm free tomorrow so let's do lunch or something.
She might test you a little more after that, but as long as she doesn't get all pissy and ignore you it's all good. In future, just remember that there is only one situation you can't move anywhere after, and that is when she gets angry and tells you to fuck off. Anything else can be worked on, and with practice you'll come up with your own stuff and be able to apply it naturally.
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no fun at all I thought it was a fair trade