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Author:  Smarts [ Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:04 am ]
Post subject:  Possible Friends with Benefits??? Please Help
Backstory- I went to a party a year ago got a girls number. Recently talked to her and went on a date (Minature Golf and Ice Cream), then another (lunch). We really hit it off but, since this was realy my first time dating I forgot the most crucial element of a Date KINO!!! So we still talk but it seems we are headed now the LJBF route. Then....

We last night we had a conversation via Texts. I was wondering If you could evalute my game and tell me what to work on. Also give me some ideas of where to go from here. THANKS in advance

I EDITED IT DOWN FOR YOU TIME :D

chit chat then

Her: I forgot to tell you, I went to a porn shop today!
Me: Really? lol arnt you only 17? (yes, in retrospect I know that a AFC responce)

Her: Yea I snuck in with 2 friends though
Me: nice. Did u see anything u liked?

Her: Yeah a few things caught my eye
.... chit chat

Me: I find it odd that u dont "pleasure yourself" (FROM A PREVIOUS CHAT) lol... but u found somethings there u liked.
Her: I do that sometimes.. I get lonely haha

Me: U told me u never do that stuff cuz its "wierd". aww I get lonely too.
Her: Haha I lied.

Me: Hey I just was thinking.. maybe one time when u get lonely and i get lonely...lol
Her: We can be lonely together?

Me: lol maybe or we could be unlonely together lol
Her: Ooh Lala

Me:lol. yes ooh lala
Her:I havent heard this side of u

Me: Im a very mysterious person Lindsey. plus like i said before im a bad ass. (sort of a inside joke with the "bad ass" comment.)
Her:Haha I like it

Me: I like it too. This is the new and improved Tommy johnny (THE PORN NAME SHE GAME ME)
Her: Well Keep it up!

Me: Thats what she said. and I will
Her: Good

I tried to edit it down as much as possible. Dalziel, Rye Lee, etc I really like your posts and responces to things so Im really looking forward to your take on my situation. The biggest thing i noticed in retrospect was the amount of "lols" i used. I am going to knock that off asap.

Thanks to all who respond
Author:  Dan144 [ Sun Jun 29, 2008 5:17 am ]
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Hey Smarts

well yea, like you said you REALLY should have kino'd lol. I've had this kind of situation somewhat before tho. What I would always do on the first date is walk with my arm around her. At first it was kind of hard for me but I've never had a girl reject it. remember - if she's willing to chill, then she obviously has at least SOME interest.

After reading that conversation, she obviously has interest in you. I remember when I first started pua stuff, and used it a little on a friend of mine she would always say how she liked the new me. she likes the new you, and she wants to see more of it. so next time you're out w/ her, do it. walk w/ your arm around her, or hold her hand if you want. start that kino, try to use your game on her. you've basically been given another chance, so take it to its fullest.

good luck man =)
Author:  Smarts [ Sun Jun 29, 2008 8:18 pm ]
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Quote:
Hey Smarts

well yea, like you said you REALLY should have kino'd lol. I've had this kind of situation somewhat before tho. What I would always do on the first date is walk with my arm around her. At first it was kind of hard for me but I've never had a girl reject it. remember - if she's willing to chill, then she obviously has at least SOME interest.

After reading that conversation, she obviously has interest in you. I remember when I first started pua stuff, and used it a little on a friend of mine she would always say how she liked the new me. she likes the new you, and she wants to see more of it. so next time you're out w/ her, do it. walk w/ your arm around her, or hold her hand if you want. start that kino, try to use your game on her. you've basically been given another chance, so take it to its fullest.

good luck man =)
Thanks a lot man. I am definately going to bring the kino next time we hang out, which she said she wanted too.
Author:  DrKnockBoots [ Mon Jun 30, 2008 4:43 am ]
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LOL whatever you do though, don't go on a lunch date again. Haven't you ever seen the movie Just Friends?

Mad Respect for the miniature golf though :D
Author:  Risen [ Mon Jun 30, 2008 4:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible Friends with Benefits??? Please Help
Quote:
Her: I forgot to tell you, I went to a porn shop today!
Me: Really? lol arnt you only 17? (yes, in retrospect I know that a AFC responce)

Her: Yea I snuck in with 2 friends though
Me: nice. Did u see anything u liked?

Her: Yeah a few things caught my eye
.... chit chat

Me: I find it odd that u dont "pleasure yourself" (FROM A PREVIOUS CHAT) lol... but u found somethings there u liked.
Her: I do that sometimes.. I get lonely haha

Me: U told me u never do that stuff cuz its "wierd". aww I get lonely too.
Her: Haha I lied.

Me: Hey I just was thinking.. maybe one time when u get lonely and i get lonely...lol
Her: We can be lonely together?

Me: lol maybe or we could be unlonely together lol
Her: Ooh Lala

Me:lol. yes ooh lala
Her:I havent heard this side of u

Me: Im a very mysterious person Lindsey. plus like i said before im a bad ass. (sort of a inside joke with the "bad ass" comment.)
Her:Haha I like it

Me: I like it too. This is the new and improved Tommy johnny (THE PORN NAME SHE GAME ME)
Her: Well Keep it up!

Me: Thats what she said. and I will
Her: Good
Hey man,

I got a few observational comments. First thing that stuck out for me were the length of your txts. You can always see that you are typing the longer messages --demonstrating that you have more interest than her. You don't want to paint yourself as a needy guy. Her replies are succint and short. I would recommend shortening you texts or waiting to text her back to show that you are a cool and busy guy (if your not already doing this). Also a good tip I have when you are negging in a txt msg that you follow it up with a smiley face like :) to know your just being playful.

All in all, I think shes interested but you gotta be the man and take her out again. Keep the texting down to a minimum and only to set up future meetings/dates. I love using texts to build comfort in the early stages, but its even better in person. Since you now know you should have used more kino, ask her out again and make sure u sexually escalate this time! Anyways, even if it doesn't work out its just another practice session that will bring you closer to your goals and becoming with women. Good luck dude!
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