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Author:  phorgot10 [ Fri Jun 27, 2008 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Question about a topic (calling if they dont call you?)

ok my main question is general but let me give you the background of how i came up with this question.. you could skip the story and go to the point at the bottom.. thanks

so i started summer school (college)
so far soo good im enjoying a lot of potential
ok so theres this asian girl HB8

first day of class she shows up late so i dont talk to her
second day class goes to library for a presentation..
she sits next to me.. i notices her staring occasionally.. (peripheral)
and i notice her giving me IOI touch her hair... trying to make herself noticed..

so my state of mind is real confident with this one.. im thinking this girl wants me to seduce her.. (haha its a great state of mind) as soon as i get the chance i open her:
Me: So your from hong kong? (her topic on a research project)
HB8: No
Me: you lied to me and the class?!?
HB8: No, my parents are blah blah blah..
Me: (more small talk) and ask her if she has the book
HB8: (small talk) yes i have the book
Me: Cool ima exchange info with you if i dont get the book

So we are going back to class

HB8: you think i'll be late if i try n drive back to class?
Me: lazy!.. haha

Now back in class

HB8: i beat you!
Me: you ran i saw you..

Class starts again.. no convo with her during this time.. class ends.. i have to stay after to talk to teacher HB8 runs off..

Yesterday..
She ends up being my partner and i have to present her to the class..
we talk about each other.. Negs here and there.. exchange numbers to finish project.. (cheesy way to get her number)..

Today..
I present her to the class... and after we chat.. i get her all worked up about trying the cube..
Me: (ask her the cube questions)
HB8: Does this really mean something..
Me: No i dont even know what im doing
HB8: (smiles hits me)
HB8: says her cube is gray...
Me: i cant talk to you anymore (walks away)
HB8: is that bad wait (follows me)
Me: (ladder, flowers, horse, storm questions)
HB*: (answers questions)
Me: Ight you ready for this.. This means nothing! (walks away)
HB8: (hits me again) wait are you serious?
Me: No.. ight lemme tell you what it means..

I get her cube completely wrong LOL..
she has class.. a lil more chitchat n she goes to class..

Me: (text her) I guess it doesnt work onn everyone.. or you were lying .. your probably lying because i dont mess up..
HB8: No you messed up! LOL
HB8: why is my cube grey?
Me: ha i dunno. ur weird. next time ill try something new.. but ima have to charge you.. starbucks will do.
HB8: charge me huh! alright but you better be right this time
Me: Im not one to guarantee anything but we'll see, haha.. hit me up after class. We'll chill. ima be in town til about 9 (going outta town for the weekend)
HB8: k ill be done in about an hour.

sooo its been later then an hour.. (3 hours) should i have called her?
personally i think that might appear needy and like i have nothing to do.. i figured id bush it off.. wait til monday see her in class and act as if nothing happened.. and maybe setup another day with her..

then again im actually not gonna to end up leaving town tonight.. i am actually going tomorrow morning now.. should i try to setup something tonight? i got class at 7 to 9.. so its going to be after 9 (me and her were suppose to hang out around 2 or 3)

Author:  Impact [ Fri Jun 27, 2008 5:17 am ]
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You should never rely on a woman to make the first moves. Thats your obligation as a man.

Author:  Trey Burnside [ Fri Jun 27, 2008 7:27 pm ]
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Looks like you gamed her very well, congrats on that!

As far as calling, I've found that if a girl says she will call you, she DEFINITELY WON'T call you.

It may be a little late now and sound needy if you called her.

Author:  phorgot10 [ Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:10 pm ]
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thank you.

yeah you guys are right i shouldnt have left it up to her..

but you know what ive noticed... i think a lot of us tend to jump to conclusions i sure as hell know i do.. so do my buddys

ive done this a couple times.. where i almost give up on a girl because i dont think shes interested..

10 mins later im making out with her..

my advice..
be patient

Author:  phorgot10 [ Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:14 pm ]
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thank you.

yeah you guys are right i shouldnt have left it up to her..

but you know what ive noticed... i think a lot of us tend to jump to conclusions i sure as hell know i do.. so do my buddys

ive done this a couple times.. where i almost give up on a girl because i dont think shes interested..

10 mins later im making out with her..

my advice..
be patient

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