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| Author: | JFTHOI [ Thu Jun 26, 2008 7:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | CRITIQUE MY GAME |
I'm new at the game so I need some guidance. Let me tell you exactly what happened so you can tell me exactly what I did wrong and what I should have done. It is very important to me that I improve my skills as a Venusian artist. The other night after a long day of classes I came back to my room to get started on some chemistry homework. At about 9ish three girls passing by our dorm decided to step in to take a look at who all was living there. (Probably my first mistake- lowered my value by it not being the other way around.) I did not know that my roommate already knew them from the night before; regardless, I knew that I had to make them see that I not he was the A-Male. Initially, the three girls didn't even pay attention to me. I wasn't worried because I knew eventually my roommate would run out of things to say and he did. I then broke down my targets into three categories. One of them showed passive characteristics; she had her arms crossed, stood behind the other two and never said a word, except for an occasional nod of approval at whatever I or her friends said. The other two were more interesting game, and I knew HB8 was the one I wanted to attract. Her friend HB7.7, was slightly more passive and introverted so I paid slightly less attention to her. I made solid eye contact with HB8 and she was locked on. I know this alone is not enough to be considered an IOI so I didn't give it much thought. After introducing myself to all of them and asking them their general background info I noticed an immediate and obvious shift of body position on all three of them. By this time, HB8 was the closest to me, leaning on my desk, while HB7.7 took a seat on my roommate's chair and faced me. Forget about B6 because she is kind off irrelevant. So the conversation shifted into stories about being a senior in high school. They had some interesting ones but after I told them about some of the crazy things my friends and I did, they laughed and giggled a lot. In fact by this time my roommate was so insignificant that he kept leaving the room and coming back. HB8 started asking questions about me so did HB7.7. I answered them with intense body language and they were pretty much mesmerized. Then I noticed B6 had nowhere to sit so she sat on the floor! I stopped in the middle of my conversation with the other two HB's and questioned B6 Why are you sitting on my floor?, and then commanded her to sit on my bed. She was so obedient! I HAVE TO STOP HERE AND TELL YOU THAT I THINK I KNOW OF TWO MISTAKES I HAVE MADE ALREADY....1. I'm staying in attraction mode too long with the HB's and 2. I have not kino'd yet. Both very stupid mistakes! This is when it gets worse!. I notice HB8 tells me she is a dancer! I KNOW YOU WILL GRILL ME FOR THIS AND I CAN'T TELL YOU WHY I DID IT BUT I CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST. I told her I like dancing too and stupidly proceeded by showing her a video on you tube of this guy who by the way did an awesome break dance. She was pretty receptive in the beginning. She was all like...Oh you have to show me! So I did, she thought it was ok. At this point I set myself up for a disaster. HB7.7 moved from the chair to my bed also (at her own will.) LET ME EMPHASIZE THE FACT THAT I HAVE TWO HB'S ON MY BED LEANING OVER TO WATCH ME (AND MOST PROBABLY THE ****** YOU TUBE.) I should have turned that computer off! But just my luck, a whole bunch of guys came up from the second floor in my room; suddenly it turned into a weird Thursday night party? I sized the guys up and I was cool with it because I still remained the A-Male even though one of the other guys was pretty good looking. Still, the girls were still focused on me and my ****** computer. I even felt HB7.7 brush her hair on my hand a couple times. I mean I moved my hand and she did it again. This is when things start to get chaotic. Instead of me taking over (MY GOD WHAT A PERFECT TIME TO CHALLENGE THEM TO AN ESP GAME OR THE 5 QUESTIONS TEST!) the group for good, I start getting requests to play all sorts of stupid videos on you tube; I am am also guilty of showing some as well. The night grew older and eventually you tube was exhausted. I failed to build comfort and escalate kino on HB8. I can't believe how much I screwed up! I mean I could have so had her or HB7.7.It got so bad that HB8 told me "I think we exhausted you tube." I kind of locked up and things got too mellow and everyone eventually left. (ANOTHER MISTAKE- AS THE GIRLS WERE LEAVING- I SHOULD HAVE NEG'D THEM LIKE "OH MY GOSH ARE YOU SERIOUS?" HB'S -WHAT? ME: YOU GUYS ARE SO RUDE! HB'S: WHAT? ME: ARE YOU GUYS SERIOUSLY GOING TO LEAVE MY ROOM WITHOUT EXCHANGING NUMBERS? ) But they were gone and I immediately saw all these mistakes and I now here I am faced with the fact that I could have had so much more. I even had DHV going for me because I was already in college 2 quarters ahead of them and they totally agreed to everything I said. The weekend went by, and I thought over how I could fix my problem. So I came up with a pretty good answer. Here is the plan. On Monday I would go knocking on HB8's room. By the way, (I KNOW I AM ALSO PUTTING WAY TOO MUCH ENERGY ON THIS ONE TARGET- I SHOULD BE MORE BUSY WITH OTHER OPTIONS; I KNOW THIS AND I JUST WANT FEEDBACK ON WHAT THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE MY SITUATION WOULD HAVE BEEN.) HB8's roommate just happens to be passive B6 (my lucky stars!, she won't even object to a date request!). I would look HB8 in the eyes and tell her I was taking a 30 minute study break and that I was going to (local juice store) for a smoothie. I would then (TELL) her to come with me, not ask. If she would say yes then we would proceed to the store, but if she would say no or give me doubts I would proceed by telling her in a playful manner that she was such a partypooper and tell her "never mind", "forget it." This way I would still preserve whatever was left of my "higher value." If she would have agreed to going we would have gotten there, and as she would proceed to make an order I would tell her to wait a minute an take a seat first. I would have them looked at her, smiled and asked her " do you know why I brought you here?" she would ask why, and I would say, "well, one because I'm really thirsty and two I wanted to play little game with you, just a fun little challenge between the sexes. She would then be interested as I am probably doing something totally different from all the other guys she's been with. Ok, I would then introduce the Questions game to her; she would play and loose. Earlier, I would have made a wager with her, If I win I would get a free drink and if she would win she would win a drink on me and (membership to my "extracurricular organization") So let’s say she wins the questions game I would buy her a smoothie and then tell her about my "peer empowerment network" I would tell her that it fosters a strong brotherhood and sisterhood among our school's student body by focusing on positive thoughts and actions. Of course what girl can resist such a "fun-outgoing" group like that? (Thank second graders for this one-I just modified it) I would tell her that in order to be accepted to the network, I would have to mark her hand. She would give me her hand and I would slowly write the letters P..E..N...and then I would tell her that she is the 15th member and of course we all know where that goes. Now, considering I win the game, I would NEG her about my drink and say something like “this is so over, we are breaking up” In this situation I can’t lose my value because she will feel bad and also I can push the tension further if she asks me out of curiosity about my “organization.” I would tell her, I can’t let you in because you didn’t win. If she insists I would say ok!, alright, but only because you are so whinny! And of course she would still get NEG’d for opening her mouth! I honestly believe she would have found it funny and the word would have remained on her hand for quite some time only to remind her of both the word itself and myself...Hopefully she would have put the two together!.....And now for what actually happened. WHAT REALLY HAPPENED? In short I went to her room, the door was open, and two guys were already in there!....Great!...but at least I didn't get **** blocked. So I told her my plan about getting some smoothies and she told me "oh but my t.v show is about to start!" So I said..."What? you're kidding right?" "Oh my gosh you are such a partypooper! She covered her face with her hands almost out of embarrassment and kind of put her face in her pillow for a second. But I told her, "never mind, forget it." And I walked away. As I did, she asked if she could have a rain check, so I just told her that she should come see me if she wanted to go. I walked away and she has still not showed up....not to my surprise.....! This is my field report......Help me fix it. Please. I refuse to get LJBF'd! |
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| Author: | jon2056 [ Thu Jun 26, 2008 8:16 pm ] |
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I'll be the first to say it. WALL OF TEXT |
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| Author: | finnegan [ Fri Jun 27, 2008 12:55 am ] |
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Cliff notes plz. lol |
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| Author: | Nine [ Fri Jun 27, 2008 5:11 am ] |
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I would've said, "You picked a T.V. show over me, jeez you're more boring than I thought," and if she asked for a rain check told her, "Here, put your number in and the next time I feel like livening up someone's day I might call you." Handed her the phone and left. Far as this one goes man, looks like a lost cause to me, don't worry though, if she really chose to watch T.V. over hanging out with you than she's not worth your time, she'll get fat watching Judge Judy and you'll get laid. Nine |
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