I'm cooking dinner, wear some scruffy jeans and a tight vest. I've recently decorated my house, it looks like an ikea showroom, leather suite with cheice, 40" sony bravia the works. I have a nice home but I cant get any women back to appreciate it. I'm 6' tall, I work out and have quite a good physique. But I have never been blessed with confidence. I seriously suck when it comes to talking to women, I'll act all cocky around my friends but if a hb9 comes along I shut up lol.
Getting off track. This hb9 knocks the door. I open and she immediately tells me she's not selling anything. She introduces herself and she represents a national charity for disabled children. She shows me her id and i know the charity so I say sure, I can make a monthly donation.
She asks if she can come in and she seems to be showing me some IOIs, now I'm fully aware that it may be her job to be this way to get me to donate and sign etc.
hb9: so do you know anyone with disabilities or have anyone in your family who is disabled?
me: no, no one I can think of
hb9: you must have good genes? (with a smile)
me: (I stand up and show her my jeans) what these?
hb9: laughs
We chat some more it turns out she's from Leeds and she asks me about where I'm originally from and my last job, where I work all those sorts of things. So I try to DHV by talking about my plans to develop my own company etc but I try to sound like I'm not trying to impress her with it, rather its something I beleive in.
Next she fills in the form.
Hb9: so how old are you?
me: 28
hb9: you dont look old enough!
(she's about 19 - 20)
All throughout she's smiling. She occasionally touches her hair and eventually comments on ym nice home. She then hands me the form for me to complete. Now I am aware this is over analyzing but she did touch my finger as she hands it to me.
hb: so what do you have planned for tonight?
me: umm, nothing
and I carry on and complete the form.
When its all complete we both stand up and talk a little more about what happens next but she stands facing me and maybe a little closer than what I would consider comfortable. At this stage I'm thinking "how do I get her number?" and as times slipping away I keep trying to think of ways, things to say, things I have read on these forums from the game but they're all too forward and would have been in appropriate for that situation. She says bye and wishes me all the best and she's gone.
I honestly want to punch myself int he face for being such a wuss. However...
I typed her name into facebook and there she is. Feeling rather linke a stalker I looked at her pictures and its her. She's 19 nearly 20, has long blonde hair and a really nice smile. My first instinct is that if I do anything to contact her on facebook, she's gonna think creepy stalker guy, but having said that, when she was here I got the impression she was attracted to me.
Do I forget this one (I'm happy to do if I dont have a chance of rescuing this)?
Or do I poke her or message her?
If yes, then how do I go about it, should I poke her and wait for a poke back, and if so, how do I follow this up. What ever you guys suggest I will try and report back.
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