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Author:  No.1Stunna [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 7:55 am ]
Post subject:  So I'm meeting this girl...

at the mall, we've been talking about fashion on MSN and what not and I asked her to go to the mall with me and help me "change my style" Now this girl just recently broke up with her bf, and I know her bf really well, so obviously i'm not going to do something stupid like kissing her, however I do want to show her an insane good time and improve myself in the process

Any advice?

Author:  Eros-SIS [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 5:48 pm ]
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There's nothing wrong with having girls as friends. In-fact this seems like the perfect opportunity to increase your social status by showing this girl a good time and by practicing your conversational and social skills. Be effortless with this girl, relaxed confidence. Instead of focusing on gaming her, just allow yourself to have fun - Don't be scared to be goofy if you want to! Hell...just treat her like one of the guys! By doing this it's likely she will introduce you to her friends not only upping your social value but allowing for new opportunities with her hot friends. Networking can be a powerful tool my friend.

-Eros

Author:  No.1Stunna [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 6:36 pm ]
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There's nothing wrong with having girls as friends. In-fact this seems like the perfect opportunity to increase your social status by showing this girl a good time and by practicising your conversational and social skills. Be effortless with this girl, relaxed confidence. Instead of focusing on gaming her, just allow yourself to have fun - Don't be scared to be goofy if you want to! Hell...just treat her like one of the guys! By doing this it's likely she will introduce you to her friends not only upping your social value but allowing for new opportunities with her hot friends. Networking can be a powerful tool my friend.

-Eros
Ok, but how do I show her a good time, like I'm not a great conversationalist I'm not going to lie.

Author:  Eros-SIS [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:39 pm ]
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There's nothing wrong with having girls as friends. In-fact this seems like the perfect opportunity to increase your social status by showing this girl a good time and by practicising your conversational and social skills. Be effortless with this girl, relaxed confidence. Instead of focusing on gaming her, just allow yourself to have fun - Don't be scared to be goofy if you want to! Hell...just treat her like one of the guys! By doing this it's likely she will introduce you to her friends not only upping your social value but allowing for new opportunities with her hot friends. Networking can be a powerful tool my friend.

-Eros
Ok, but how do I show her a good time, like I'm not a great conversationalist I'm not going to lie.
Do what YOU enjoy doing.

The best way to build rapport is to be a good listener.

When she says something of interest to you thats where you can offer some input into the conversation.

Ask her leading, probing, deeper questions.

The keys here are that she is of to be value to you for you to reward her with attention. You aren't to be a scatter brain and try to impress her by talking a lot and saying nothing. That can be very irritating.

An alpha male isn't going to sacrifice himself (his time) to someone who bores him or he has nothing to gain from such as a worthwhile experience.

Having said this you want to do something that is interactive because there's a fine line between doing what you enjoy and staying in your comfort zone.

Here's some ideas for you;

Play ball in the park.

Go gym.

Go swimming.

Go to a shooting range.

Play ping-pong.

It could be anything as long as it involves both people. That's why i think going to a movie is a bad idea until you enter a relationship because there's little interaction there.

-Eros

Author:  No.1Stunna [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:57 pm ]
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There's nothing wrong with having girls as friends. In-fact this seems like the perfect opportunity to increase your social status by showing this girl a good time and by practicising your conversational and social skills. Be effortless with this girl, relaxed confidence. Instead of focusing on gaming her, just allow yourself to have fun - Don't be scared to be goofy if you want to! Hell...just treat her like one of the guys! By doing this it's likely she will introduce you to her friends not only upping your social value but allowing for new opportunities with her hot friends. Networking can be a powerful tool my friend.

-Eros
Ok, but how do I show her a good time, like I'm not a great conversationalist I'm not going to lie.
Do what YOU enjoy doing.

The best way to build rapport is to be a good listener.

When she says something of interest to you thats where you can offer some input into the conversation.

Ask her leading, probing, deeper questions.

The keys here are that she is of to be value to you for you to reward her with attention. You aren't to be a scatter brain and try to impress her by talking a lot and saying nothing. That can be very irritating.

An alpha male isn't going to sacrifice himself (his time) to someone who bores him or he has nothing to gain from such as a worthwhile experience.

Having said this you want to do something that is interactive because there's a fine line between doing what you enjoy and staying in your comfort zone.

Here's some ideas for you;

Play ball in the park.

Go gym.

Go swimming.

Go to a shooting range.

Play ping-pong.

It could be anything as long as it involves both people. That's why i think going to a movie is a bad idea until you enter a relationship because there's little interaction there.

-Eros
Ok well I guess the clothes shopping can be interactive, ask her opinion and what not, just be engaging and interactive with the other person and we'll both have a good time, thanks.

Author:  Eros-SIS [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 9:01 pm ]
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You got it!

-Eros

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