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| Author: | wesakalaonu [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 2:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to stop being a makeout artist |
The last two friday nights, I have # closed and kiss closed both times but I run into the same problems twice. The first girl I kiss closed asked me for a lot of personal information and I used the mystery kiss close technique to make out with her. I get her number and call her the next day and find out she has boyfriend who she is really in love with. The next girl I kiss closed asked me a lot of personal information and once again I used the Mystery kiss close technique and made out with her for 30 minutes. I tried to escalate to sex but she had to take care of her friend. I call her the next day trying to hang out again but she completely flakes. How do I get out of this vicious cycle? |
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| Author: | Saiko [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:03 am ] |
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buyer remorse what you are doing is rushing too fast to the point in which she felt remorse about the make out scene yesterday what you need to do is to stop the action before it gets to hot, it's show that you're a genuine guy who know how to control himself and also you're not just another guy trying to get into her pants also you should finish reading mystery method to understand the whole process _Saiko |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:11 pm ] |
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From my experience, if you make out with a girl in a club then get her number, she will always flake. It's a mistake I made in my earlier days when I wasn't confident enough to suggest us going home together. Like Saiko said, it's buyers remorse - if you aren't confident that you're gonna get her home, don't kiss her if you're planning to meet her again. In her mind, you'll just be "that guy I made out with" and because of that she'll think (know) that you're only after one thing. With this in mind, why would she risk meeting up with you again? Imagine what her friends would think if they knew she made out with some guy and decided to meet up with him a few days later... they'd think she was a slut. You need to put yourself in her shoes to fully understand this. |
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| Author: | wesakalaonu [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:23 pm ] |
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Thanks for the advice, man. I've been studying pick up for about a year and read just about every book on the market. |
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| Author: | DarwinOwnsYou [ Wed Jun 25, 2008 3:45 am ] |
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Saiko and Dalziel both gave good advise. TMM says how he doesn't try and f close after going to the club. He takes her out sometime that week and builds 7 hours of comfort before trying to f close. |
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