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| Author: | whisky [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 8:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | False IOIs and the Flirt |
How do you distinguish between a girl who likes you and a flirt/tease who continually give you false IOIs? Increasingly I'm beginning to think that recent sarging experiences have led me to flirtatious girls. Is there anyway to combat this and to be successful with these women? |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 10:07 pm ] |
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You mean whilst sargin? Difficult, but you could give her a few subtle qualifier tests. Like if you hold out your hand does she squeeze back. Is she flicking her hair, if you choose to sit down does she join you, does she laugh at your jokes, does she ask questions about you etc. |
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| Author: | whisky [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 10:37 pm ] |
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Apologies, having re-read my initial post I realised that it is rather vague. Without intending to tell my life story, I seem to be a sucker for these flirts- I often receive IOIs and think that I can close but then they demonstrate a lack of interest at certain points. Great example was the other day, when I was talking to a girl, who was giving me IOIs throughout the conversation, ranging from laughing at what were frankly terrible jokes to slight kino. Was telling my friend about it the other day, and it seems that she has been leading on a few other people (I met her through a friend I visited at uni and it seems that she has given IOIs to my friend and a couple of housemates). Due to my utter inability to distinguish between false and actual IOIs, I spent time sarging her under the impression that she was interested in me, however it now appears that she may not have been. She was an 8, and I still would like to close her, and as such, how can I (a) ensure that these IOIs are real, and; (b) ensure that in the future I can filter the teases and flirts? |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 10:48 pm ] |
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Think back to when you first laid eyes on her. Think past the jokes and the openers. Before she even opened her mouth to speak and vice versa What was her body language like? Was it on? Girls decide if you're BF material during the first few seconds of meeting. Was your frame strong? If you're still unsure, whether you like it or not, you gotta start taking risks. Push her see how far she'll go. High risk - high reward/(or loss) and all that shit. |
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