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| Author: | whisky [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 6:59 pm ] |
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I visited some mates up at Uni the other day and ended up striking a conversation with a HB8 at a house gathering before hitting a club. Even in the club this continued. I knew that the girl was a target of a friend, and therefore while I could and should have closed I backed off, only for the friend not to do anything! My problem is therefore as follows- is it ok to game and attempt to close the girl bearing in mind this knowledge? Personally I believe in the so-called 'bros vs. hoes' philosophy and would even step aside if asked to by a friend (a little AFC perhaps?), though bearing in mind that the guy has had her in his room overnight and not made a move I feel that I could pursue the girl. What's your opinion? Since I have actually only met her once (in the evening and the morning after, when she slept in her girlfriend's room), if you feel I should sarge her, how best to do it- I know she is on Facebook, though feel silly trying to game her this way! Cheers. |
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| Author: | phrozenflame [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 8:03 pm ] |
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If you're friend isnt gonna do anything, then you will bear the oppurtunity cost. Talk with him and tell him to grow balls or backoff. xd |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 10:21 pm ] |
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Talk with your mate first I say. A couple of years ago (I only found out about the game 2 weeks ago so this was before any of that) my mate really liked this girl but she liked me and even asked ME out (not often I hear of girls doing that) I said "yeah, but i'm not gonna say anything definate before next week" as I wanted to ask my mate if it was ok first, however someone told him before I got a chance to speak to him and well he wasn't too pleased. Wouldn't talk to me etc (when it's your best mate aswell you know you fucked up). Anyway I soon broke it off and the friendship was renewed, however I coulda lost a best mate from this. SO anyway, now that my lifes story is over, I recommend talking it over with your buddy first and foremost before anything if he is a good friend. Bros before Hoes as you said afterall. |
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| Author: | whisky [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 11:11 pm ] |
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Thanks for the advice, I am going to chat with the guy and explain that if he isn't going to do anything, he should stand aside. Again, the problem is that she is more 'linked' to my mate than me- can I just make contact through Facebook and sarge her despite only meeting her once? What's the best way to do this?! |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 11:23 pm ] |
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Contacting her through Facebook would be fine I think. Usually people just add you anyway even if they don't know you, so even if she has only met you once I think it is a decent way of getting in touch. Just add her with a message like "hey remember me etc etc" I'd be surprised if she didn't add you aswell as make a response and then you can start gaming her over facebook. Basically do what you'd do face to face but kinda put it into words on there, then eventually get her number and set up a meet etc. If you've already made a good impression on her it shouldn't be too hard I wouldn't think. |
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