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| Author: | kommodo [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 4:42 pm ] |
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I have a slight situation. I want to close with a HB in my class (17) but I think I want to start just by chilling with her and her bestfriend with my wing. But I live in a real shit hole and there is nothing to do here. I was thinking of watching a movie at my wings place with them after I've invited them over. But the real problem is that school is almost out (less than a week left). I thought I could use this to my advantage by saying that were going to celabrate a nother succesful year. Is watching a movie with them at my wings place a good idea? (if so, what kind of movies are good for stuff like this?) Any other thoughts? As I have just a couple of days left, it's pretty urgent. |
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| Author: | mrieus [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 4:51 pm ] |
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I would say something a bit more public - it might give them the wrong impression that you are inviting them over to your mates place. Bit too intimate. What if things get uncomfortable? They may feel a bit intimidated. For a first-dater, take them somewhere a bit more public. As it's the end of term, try and do something a bit special to celebrate it, maybe something like bowling, ice skating, funfair - there must be something going on, especially as term is ending....? Make sure you put most of the emphasis on the fact it's the end of term and it's not so much a date - just the fact you think you would like to hang out with them so as not to put them on a pedestal too much. It's really not even a date at this point, just friends hanging out. Believe me, they will think more of you for arranging something special and thinking of inviting them along, than something they can do anytime - with or without you! Good luck! "G" |
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| Author: | cedius [ Mon Jun 23, 2008 5:22 pm ] |
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Good point made by mrieus. But you mentioned that you live in a sh!thole...so if that's not possible, then you may need to resort to your wings home. If she's 17, its not quite uncommon to go to other's homes but she may be abit uncomfortable. Have her invite her bf to make it more sociallable, you and your wing can build each-other up. Throw it out there that you are celebrating, see if she shows interest, if so, then it shouldn't be awkward at all. Make sure that you mention that this is a strictly a friends gathering, nothing more. Her and her BF seem like a fun group and thats what your looking for, nothing more. Hopefully that would ease there minds. Um, regarding the selection, I would say a comedy, no romantic flix... Thats my 2 cents, if Im wrong, tell me why, Im here to learn! |
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