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| Author: | c-mag [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 3:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | girl at the gym |
their this girl whos on the fitness team at my gym bit older than me and ive been their about 2 months without speaking to her anyone got any advice on ht to open to her and what opener i should use |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 5:25 pm ] |
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2 months and you haven't spoken to her? Just say hi. The opener isn't important... it's how you follow it up, and how you deal with her shit tests etc that really matters. |
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| Author: | c-mag [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 11:57 am ] |
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any other tips guys |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 3:13 pm ] |
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Fine, I guess that was a little too simple. You need to work on your inner game because you haven't even said hi to this girl in 2 whole months. You haven't made any effort to approach her and you need to ask yourself why this is before you start asking how to do it. I should also note that by focusing on this one girl you're putting too much value in her and it will cause you to make decisions based on your emotions rather than logic. You'll find yourself supplicating to her even though you know you shouldn't, and I know you will because I've seen it happen. Keep your wits about you so you don't fall into the trap. You should read some material from around the forums and learn to apply it to your situation instead of looking for a quick fix, because it just doesn't work that way. I wrote some stuff on improving your inner game and included simple techniques which you can apply to a multitude of situations... including this girl at the gym. You can find it here, and I highly recommend that you put some thought into why you haven't approached her yet. Approach anxiety is often caused by completely unfounded beliefs and while it is hard to overcome, the only fast way is to suck it up, stop giving a shit, be a man and just fucking do it. |
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| Author: | c-mag [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:02 pm ] |
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thanks for the advice. |
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| Author: | crentist [ Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:44 pm ] |
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Hitting on girls at the gym is hard because its difficult to not show neediness. Remember, the PUA needs to be the exception to the rule, you don't want to hit on her like shes seen a million guys do before. |
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| Author: | c-mag [ Wed Jun 25, 2008 12:45 pm ] |
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i undestand the fact that im not as ol as the other guys their or as good as in shape as they are so i know that i have to stand out and be exceptionally charming ust looking for the best opener i can get reall. butthe other guy helped me out a bit an im going to practice before i go in for her |
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| Author: | spainj125 [ Thu Jun 26, 2008 5:29 am ] |
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Most girls in the gym see themselves as being in the worst state possible...Think about it...When they go out at night, they work so hard for at minimum an hour to make themselves look perfect in every way...In the gym they see themselves as imperfect in every way...Hair unkempt, sweating, revealing clothing, etc...So they are already very self-conscious....For that reason there is a good chance they will react alot differently than if you were to see them out at a club on Saturday night....Take that as you will.... |
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