Okay, heres the deal. I had a friend who was in the 'friend zone' that I was successful in gettin out of the zone today. I had been starting to distance a bit and to stop accepting getting dragged into conversations that she would have with a 'girl friend.' You know the emotional bitching about bullshit stuff that girls do. Anyways, that plus constant playful negs and increased kino built up to today. Well today we were at a party that was mostly her friends, some of them were acquaintances I had made, but mostly through her. Anyways, I made sure to chat up every person at the party, including all the girls there, and their boyfriends. At the same time, payed not so much attention to my target (friend). She was ready to leave early and I managed to get her back to my apt to chill out. Well I went in for the kiss and it worked. I met with a good bit of LMR about friends thing, I dont remember exactly what I said but it took a bit and finally I just told her 'shut up' and I started kissing her. We made out for about an hour and moved to the bed. There were issues preventing us from going too far (time of month), and besides, I could tell she was still a bit weirded out with the whole thing. We ended up falling asleep and woke up and messed around and a bit then she had to leave. She is goin out with girlfriends to dance tonight (I am not goin to that). But I told her she should come back to sleep over later and she said 'we'll see.' I dont think she is just bullshittin however, I dont doubt that she is a bit nervous and possibly experiencing some buyers remorse about the whole thing since we are such close friends.
How should I proceed? I dont want to call or txt, but I also dont want her to not think I dont want her back here later. On the one hand Im thinking, Im sure I am still on her mind and if she does call or txt later and I dont send one first, its a done deal. On the other (and this might be the AFC in me), I dont want to not txt or call and lose chance tonight.
Any advice on this is really appreciated!!
