Dont know if this is a noob question but i havent been posting here so i cant post anywhere else..
Ok so my buddy invites me to a party last night. The girl throwing the party is an old friend (acquaintance more like it). So we show up.. buncha people I dont know but I walk up to each and every person chit chat and introduce myself.
I built up a good relationship with a lot of people.. then I start drinking.. (i know i shouldnt have but i did).
My homegirls friends show up (other girls). We are all talking about random shit.. I neg my target here and there.. She says something like ive never cheated on no one blah blah blah.. i say tell me that again look into her eyes (for signs that she has. like looking out the right side).. she passed haha.
ok then theres more chit chat with her.. then i pulled her aside and i ran the cube on her.. (i love the cube).. Im tell you guys about her cube because some of the stuff applies to the story and i am telling this because it was a unique cube might help you guys.. and i got it mostly correct.. i was sorta surprised but i played it off cool
This is her cube
-medium
-purple, black and white (at first i was like i dunno this)
-bouncing (i was like hmm?)
Her ladder
-on the floor
-lots of rungs
Her flowers
-lots of little black flowers on the floor (i didnt know what this ment)
Her Horse
-white unicorn
-tall
Her storm
-in the distance
Ok.. haha so i really had to think.. (keep in mind i was a little drunk).. This is what i told her
Her cube
basically she had a medium ego.. then i asked her about her colors she said they were splattered all over.. So i was like ooooo ok.. i told her she was really random.. (this was correct).. and i told her that at time she was well grounded but at times she was really imaginative (bouncing cube)
Her ladder
I whispered this in her ear.. since i didnt wanna put her problems on blast.. i told her she felt like a lot of her friends have let her down.. (haha her face lit up in aww)
Her flowers
i sorta asked her about it.. because i didnt understand what a buncha little black flowers ment.. she said she liked kids but when she thought of having them it scared her.. (it made since.. people associate black as a bad sometimes scary color i guess)
Her horse
is obvious a white tall guy is her ideal love, maybe a unique guy since it was a unicorn (question about this ill ask when i bring it up again further in the story)
Her storm
in the distance, she opened up to me about her parents divorce and how she was sorta ignoring it..
ok so after i ran the cube she was shocked she gave me a hug.. and as i was running the cube on her i had my arm around her.. so kino was present.. so i give her a lil advice.. about how to deal with divorces.. and we head back to the group.. (should i have ran more material on her b4 we went back to group?)
she took off to take her friend home but came back..
ok well my buddy had met the same girl i had ran the cube on the day before (tall white guy.. remember tall white unicorn).. i dunno what kinda relationship hes built with her but.. when she gets back we are all sitting on my buddies truck.. My buddy talks to her for a lil then asked her to go on a walk they come back and they start doing there thing.. (not that i mind because me and my buddy always talk before gaming up girls and ask each other if all girls are fair game)..
Ok so my question is should I have been more alpha..?? and ask her to go on a walk with me after the cube? what could I have done differently to be that guy (haha my buddy)? Basically i talked to him after and gave him props I told him i think i just learned something new.. be more alpha.
And another question if the girls "ideal lover" is white (im mexican).. is it harder to game her up? i would hate backing down because she describes her ideal lover as something different then me.. this is the first time this is ever come to mind and im sorta curious on the answer
