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| Author: | The Visionist [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 10:26 pm ] |
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There's a HB9 at work , whom I offered a lift home today, just to #close her more easily at the end. She said it was a a bright evening and that she'd rather walk, but she'd hold me to it for next week. She was friendly and showed an IOI or two. She mentioned her BF when I asked about the music on her Ipod. I completely ignored this, and left her after a few minutes with a "suit yourself... I'm going in that direction anyway... I need to get to a party..." Now, my PUA friend who works with her said he'll tell her to ask me for a lift next time. Obviously I can't ask her again now without looking needy. I already feel like i've blown it tbh because I waited for her for a good 10-15 minutes before leaving time, and so I look like a needy AFC creep. It really sucks because I had some great DHV routines to try on her during the trip. The question is: what do you say to convince a girl who has a marginal interest in you, to get into your car? |
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| Author: | phorgot10 [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:13 pm ] |
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say you have candy..  hehe ima guess to what other people are probably going to say.. but just build more comfort with her.. talk about family or something.. i would say something a long the lines "aww my little brother did the cutest thing the other day..." i think that girls like it when guys say "cute" |
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| Author: | Illusion. [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 7:23 am ] |
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Building more comfort, attraction would be a good idea or at least making some sort of connection. depending on how much time youve spent with her, its unlikely shes gonna get into a car with some guy she hardly knows. Just bide your time and it will all pay off! |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 10:42 am ] |
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If you want her to get into your car just so you can "get her number easier", you're actually steering things in the opposite direction. When you do a girl a favour then ask for her number or anything else from her she will feel like you're trying to manipulate her. What you're actually saying to her with this kind of behaviour is, "I'll do you a favour in the hopes that you'll like me for it and/or feel obligated to give me what I want in return". It makes you look insecure and that you have to butter her up before you feel confident enough to get to the point, and that's a really awkward situation you're putting her in because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings after you being nice to her. This is why girls turn down offers like that. If you want a girls number, just get it. Don't try and set up the right circumstances or wait for the most appropriate moment. She knew you were trying to set up a situation so you could ask her something like that because she's more than likely been in that situation before - you put yourself in the same category as those guys who have tried the same thing and that's why she turned down the offer. |
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| Author: | The Visionist [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:46 pm ] |
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Excellent Point Dalziel. I hadn't thought of that. She certainly will have many hot guys all over her. She's only a 9 in the company uniform. Outside of it, on the other hand.... I realize now the many mistakes I made: I called her by her Second name when I offered her the lift (implying familiarity that should have been absent, why should I know her surname after all?) and I also said "im driving that way anyway", which ironically enough, made her suspect I was a stalker who knew where she lived. It is obvious now she took ages emerging because she wanted me to give it up and leave. I had a car magazine in my hand which I was leafing through whilst talking to her so as to not show too much interest. I should have pointed out a Lambo in there and talked about how I drove one last month or something, and how exciting it was. I should have used my huge car knowledge to impress her somewhat. Ah Shite, i've blown it again!  If she does ask for a lift now, should I turn her down?
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 7:48 pm ] |
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Nah, if she asks you shouldn't turn her down. Instead, turn the tables and make her qualify herself to you. You need to be careful how you go about that though... you already offered her a ride and she declined it because she thought you were gonna try something, so that means now if she asks for a ride and you ask what you get out of it, she will put her guard up and change her mind instead of qualifying herself to you. So, the way you want to word it should be along the lines of asking what she's done for you lately. Be playful, of course. If you want her number, don't wait until you drop her off and she's about to get out of the damn car. Get to the point while you're on the way there... just tell her you were thinking you should get together outside of work cos she looks like she knows how to have fun. Ideally you should do this next time you see her rather than waiting for her to ask for a ride though. It'll work out a hell of a lot better that way. |
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| Author: | The Visionist [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 9:12 pm ] |
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Ha Ha, what a difference a few months make!  This girl can't stay away from me now. She opens me all the time, kinos me constantly, laps up my C&F like SPAM. But gorgeous or not, she simply aint worth it. Her BF is a bruiser! 
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