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| Author: | Walt [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She just broke up with bf |
I met a hb7 whilst travelling and k-closed. She had a bf at the time. She lives a fair distance away but we are both back in England now. Have been txt gaming her since my return and it seems to be going very well, had been completely ignore the bf issue untill now. She has just brought up the fact things are over with her long term bf (3 years) and she has a lot on her mind. Things are messy and she doesn't want to hurt him. Whats my line to deal with the situation. Is it too soon to act straight away and arrange a meet etc? I don't want to get to comfort her too much as its likely she'll see me as a friend. How do I avoid that? Cheers. |
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| Author: | sabe007 [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:58 pm ] |
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If you want to k-close or even f-close someone with a boyfriend, you keep the subject light hearted and fun. The same goes with this target of yours. her relationship issues are inconsequential. you want to keep the focus on you not him. go back to building attraction and ease up on the comfort building. |
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| Author: | Walt [ Sat Jun 28, 2008 11:15 am ] |
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Dangerously close to this becoming one-itus.. After she told me about the situation it seemed we were very close and she had appreciated me entertaining her. Since then I've pretty much avoided the subject, cracking jokes and negging her alot (does it become too much?) and kept the focus on me trying to dhv where possible. However she really has stopped/slowed down replying straight after I felt I had got somewhere. She says she keeps using up all her credit on me. Shes at glastonbury festival this weekend so not gonna bother trying to txt/call her. Made a little priv joke about saying she was on tv (big crowd shot) got a very short reply along the lines of "..really??". She did try and ring me at 2am but I didn't answer; as guessed it was accidental or she was just very drunk and I was sleeping. Do I cut this one loose and go out and game something else or wait till after the festival and give her a chance to reply. |
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| Author: | Walt [ Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:48 pm ] |
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Okay so the bf seems completely out of the picture now. Last night she was out clubbing and called me at 2am. I was asleep and in no mood to pick up, we have pretty much just been txting up untill now. She sends a message, saying man up and answer the call. Ponder this for a bit, yeah it was rude for her to call at such a time, I txted along the lines call when your not drunk and ill happily talk to you! Eventually I got up and called her, but the music was very loud and we couldn't talk atall. She txt straight after saying thanks for calling sorry about the music. Called this morning but she didn't pick up and txt said her friends were still asleep. I'm not so confident about my phone game so need a real purpose for calling. I want to arrange a day 2 over the phone but she lives far away. So need to make sure shes ready and won't flake. How to handle? |
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Tue Jul 15, 2008 8:28 pm ] |
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Sounds like she's ready. I think there's more chance that you'll flake than her. If you meet her, do you plan to text across the table? there's no difference from being on the phone and sitting next to each other when it comes to conversation - consider it conversation practice |
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| Author: | Walt [ Tue Jul 15, 2008 8:53 pm ] |
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I think your right. but I prefer to talk to face to face though; body language, eye contact, kino all in my favour there. Do need to build the inner game and just call to arrange day 2. |
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