hey all,
i attempted my first night sarging today, gotta say i failed miserably.. didnt really talk to anyone. however i made a couple of breakthroughs:
1) drove. said no to the drink tonight and i think im becoming just as confident when drinking and when im sober
2) girls i know as acquaintances i began to act with more PUA-style than my traditional nice boy gentlemen AFC style. Not for the intent of sarging but rather 'practice' for sarge cause im comfortable talking to these school/uni mates. reaction is different like they wanna talk to u more rather than u sucking up to them
Now the main question is... everytime i go to attempt a set im left speechless, like i have no idea wat to do. i know its AA kicking in, but at times im like i can take on the world and other times im like shit i cant do anything right. My environment was with guys who are AFC's/got gf's or just not into picking up (dunno why..
), maybe i need to become associated with people who sarge more. so any pointers in this regard? just blurt out whatever i was gunna say to the set and grow some balls? lolanother thing that i guess worked, is that my drunk mate wanted to dance n get with some chicks, ive done it b4, wasted, didnt think id fair too well sober as a judge. however a girl eyed me n i eyed back, eventually started grinding up n down, kissing her gently, just not real hook up. felt good for a bit but no game.. lol i guess AA went out the window on the dance floor.. which is strange to me cause id think ud be MORE nervous dancing than just opening sets..
i know this is a long post and appreciate those who read.. just thought id send out another experience n hoping for some feedback