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| Author: | Trevino [ Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:30 pm ] |
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Okay so heres the deal. I have been reading lots of things for the last month or so since being introduced to all of this. I am ready to go out there and just start approaching sets. I dont know why but everytime I go out I just cant get my nerve to go for that first one. Can anyone give me some advice? How did you work up the courage the first time? |
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| Author: | tynacorp [ Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:11 pm ] |
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go some place low key. coffee house, or book store. find a target. If i'm in the coffee house I sit where I can make eye contact. once thats done find something about her to comment on. Bookstores are easy look at the title she is looking at and start talking. it doesn't matter if you close you'll just get used to talking to girls. |
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| Author: | Trevino [ Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:30 pm ] |
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The thing is, Im not really a shy person. In situations where I am introduced to beautiful women through some way or another, I dont have a problem. Also, I can bs with just about anyone. The exception is the whole 3 second rule approach of beautiful women. For some reason I am just totally intimidated. I know this comes from a weak inner game. For some reason I still question whether or not I am attractive, although I have had many women. I dont know why I can just accept that I have something good to offer and get my confidence from that. |
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| Author: | tynacorp [ Thu Jun 19, 2008 10:02 pm ] |
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The three second rule doesn't mean that you have to approach them after 3 seconds. Its there so that you don't talk yourself out of doing what you need to do. the longer you wait the more likely you are not to do it. |
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| Author: | CeeStar [ Fri Jun 20, 2008 1:42 am ] |
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Quote: The three second rule doesn't mean that you have to approach them after 3 seconds. Its there so that you don't talk yourself out of doing what you need to do. the longer you wait the more likely you are not to do it.
I agree with this, I hardly follow the 3 second rule as it puts to much pressure on me I think. But the key is to not allow your mind to make excuses for you not to approach. Once you got that on lock down its cool.For approaching just put it into your mindspace that you dont care about the outcome, your just having fun and meeting new people and be playful. Always smile when opening and eye contact and you will be fine. Once you get the first one opened in the night, the rest will flow. |
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