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| Author: | jlitt [ Thu Jun 19, 2008 4:04 pm ] |
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Gentlemen, lately I have had some Buyers Remorse Issues. In particular I picked up this girl that i liked, got her back to my bed, had a decent amount of Conversation, connection , bonding etc. And some moments of heavy making out. Yet i did no foreplay. Held back. The next morning she told me she was "so attracted to me" things seem to be goinig by the book.....After we woke up we got something to eat and then she became a bit cold and distant, and as we left to go to our separate cars we kissed but it was a bit awkward. I Purposely didnt ask for her number in hopes of her asking for mine, but I added her on facebook.....she still hasnt accepted. What is a next logical step? Just move on? |
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| Author: | jlitt [ Fri Jun 20, 2008 1:19 am ] |
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any ideas gentlemen? |
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| Author: | Reo [ Fri Jun 20, 2008 2:28 am ] |
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Yes... stop checking your facebook every 30 secs waiting for her to add u....you missed a golden opportunity to do this girl up don't let it happen again.....u should have gotten her number because now your just waiting on her no good.... on a plus note you may still be ok once she adds you get her number ASAP |
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| Author: | blazincajun88 [ Fri Jun 20, 2008 2:46 am ] |
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You don't want to act like you are begging for her number. Just come off casual try to make her get your attention back. Act like you don't need her, Freeze out if you feel like it is going to work. Once you are the prize then get her #. |
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| Author: | nietzsche [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:38 am ] |
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I don't know what the standard protocol is for buyer's remorse but recently I met a girl who I went to her house and mad out with her and felt her up a couple hours after meeting her. When I left she got upset and made some comment about feeling like she barely knew me. I purposely left my phone when I was leaving, so I had an excuse to come back the next day without making it seem like it was to further escalate our relationship. I used false time constraints but talked my way into staying a little longer. She already was attracted to me but I just talked a bit to get to know her and build up a bit of the comfort that was missing and didn't do anything sexual and eventually she just came on me again so I kissed her for a bit, withdrew and left. From my limited experience buyer's remorse seems fixable if you recognize it and fix it soon enough. In your situation I think you did wait too long though because now to get her back you have to chase her which never works. I think one of the ways to fix buyer's remorse is to pretend like you have it as well, and act like she was the aggressive one in the situation. Keep in mind, however, that I am still learning, so take this information with a grain of salt. P.S. blazincajun gave some good advice as well |
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