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| Author: | becomepua [ Tue Jun 17, 2008 6:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | keep it up..20-25min |
How can I keep the conversation going for 20-25 min. After 10 min sometimes my mind just goes blank and I dont have any topics to talk about. |
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| Author: | Saiko [ Tue Jun 17, 2008 7:26 am ] |
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you could squeeze and drag on the topic as long as you can or find a good topic to branch off or just build up your knowledge by finding what's occurring around the world remember saying something is better off then saying nothing at all _Saiko |
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| Author: | TipJar [ Tue Jun 17, 2008 7:37 am ] |
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Simple. Ask the right questions and let her do the talking. She's probably been waiting all day to go off on a tangent about this or that thing that happened to her today. I see this all the time. I see it every day. She'll love you for being there, and if you just pay attention, you can boost her when she's right, and bust her when she's wrong. Don't worry about those time constraints. She can and will fill them up. IMO, guys should never worry about extending convo. It isn't our strong point anyway. Give her the mic and let her flex. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:02 am ] |
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Improve upon your social skills. |
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| Author: | TipJar [ Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:35 am ] |
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Another point maybe worth mentioning here, IMO, is that you could ask your niece or nephew how their day was, and they'd say something like, "Well, Mackenzie told everybody I farted, I started crying, so Austin gave her an indian burn, and then Miss Jackson made the whole class clean out our desks." My point is that kids always seem to assume an unwarranted but cute level of impossible familiarity. But I find grown women seem to do this, too. It's like they never grew out of it. To me it's totally illogical but totally endearing. Style alluded to it with a handy quote I can't find right now, about the girls on the playground, and what they were up to. Bottom line is, you could simply ask a girl how her day was, listen carefully, let her go on and on, and you'll suddenly realize she's given you hours and hours of stuff to work with. You're in. |
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| Author: | Daul [ Tue Jun 17, 2008 12:55 pm ] |
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TipJar beat me again.. lol Listen carefully and compare stories, "o that reminds me of when", then go back to her story, and then you can get reminded again,let her finish and keep talking, open up loads of thread,s you will end up having to much to talk about in such a short amount of itme she will have to give you her number to keep talking.. |
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