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| Author: | lupo [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Problem in phase-shifting after opening |
Hi, i just come back from a night at a club and i opened to this HB8 with the jealous girlfriend opener. She seemed to enjoy it, when i was dropping the conversation she picked it up again, and she also touched me while answering, but when she finished answering i couldnt come up with anything smarter than "why are u here all alone?", and after she told me she was lookin for her friends i was only left with "ok, pleasure to meet you". What should i have done? |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:18 am ] |
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Wow, you gave up easy. That was a perfect opportunity... I mean seriously, you did an opener, she responded well to it, and you just walked away? You need to either bone up on your conversation skills or be more forward if you don't know what else to say. Honesty will get you out of many a rut, you know. There's nothing wrong with saying "Wow, you know something, this is really weird but I don't know what the hell else to talk about!". She'll get a kick out of it, if you do it while smiling nomatter what you say she won't take it seriously. I've said that exact same thing before and the girl just laughed, hit me and started asking me all this stuff and basically came up with all the conversation for me so I didn't have to think what to say. I don't really do club game anymore but when I was really into it I was very direct and mostly got good results from it. If a girl told me her friends left her all alone I'd just be like, "I can't believe they left you here all alone, I bet I could take you home and they wouldn't even notice". From there, I knew exactly where I stood with her, and if she reacted badly and walked off she'd usually tell her friends and point me out, and some time later one of her friends would always end up hovering near me and start asking me stuff. So yeah, it was a case of getting the girl I wanted or getting her equally hot (or sometimes hotter) friend. |
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