When I have a hard time making sense of complicated or even simple things I compare it to something I already know about like in the movie "Road Trip" one of the guys has to take an exam but has no idea how to understand it I think it was about Greek gods and which had more power over the other but one of his friends taught him by comparing the greek gods to wrestlers because he was more familiar with that. i do the same with pick up I compare it with something I already understand.
too make it easy for me i think about it as colleges and being accepted or being rejected. Most everyone wants to go to go to college but who wants to go to a bad college? (this is where value comes in
its easier to ignore the bad colleges because of its low value=low value males. A high value college always evaluates their applicants.(screening or qualification) at the same time if the applicant does not meet standards the college will reject them and consider other applicants.(willingness to walk away).this makes the student want to work hard to meet standards See where i'm getting at with this.I was just wondering if you guys found this helpful and for those who already do this sort of thing what are your ways of understanding pickup?