PUA Forum :: Picking up a girl at bank

Someone please tell me what IMO means. I've seen it and asked on so many websites but no one ever informs me. Drives me up the wall.

Edit: Oh, wait! I could ask her about her hair and what kind of saloon she goes to as I can't find the right barber for my hair (it's true btw). But I still need to do some little neg, so she doesn't see me as needy, then say, OH SHI-, gotta leave and get the number...somehow! Sounds nerdy, i know

Edit2x: Hey, how about this guys. On leaving: "Btw - your haircut is almost perfect! What saloon do you go to?"..."Oh, cool, well I have a problem finding the right haircut (which is truth), so I would like to buy a sexy hat. I see you have good sense of style. You should help me find a good one. But I gotta run now. How about this - here *give paper and pen*. Be creative [suppose she writes her number]. *Take paper with number* Ok, see ya then (leave)" good y/n?

Wait, wait, wait...it's not pickup artist style to just sincerly ask the girl out or something. I wanted to use mystery or styles methods, but I just don't know appropriate opener for bank situation. I need tease/compliment her quickly, be playful, flirting, not just ask "HI! My name is Jim, let's go and have a coffee" - LAME. I want to play this real smooth, like a real pickup artist does.

Author:	Watermelon [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:19 am ]
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I need to pick up my credit card tomorrow and today I noticed that the girl that gives out cards is actually very hot (I guess it's because she changed haircut ). I haven't tried to pick her up before, but would like to tomorrow. She was friendly to me and I am always dressed well, so visual appearance should not be a problem imo. I just need to find some clever tactic. Any ideas guys?

Author:	supa [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:40 am ]
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Someone please tell me what IMO means. I've seen it and asked on so many websites but no one ever informs me. Drives me up the wall. I personally would treat her like any other girl in any other shop. I'm kinda in the same position, there's a sexy chick at my bank. When I went to get some money changed up to go on holiday with she told me she'd been to the same destination and really enjoyed it and we got talking. The only problem is Im normally looking scruffy when I go into the bank because of being at work so I try to avoid her.

Author:	Solomon II [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:45 am ]
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Quote: Someone please tell me what IMO means. I've seen it and asked on so many websites but no one ever informs me. Drives me up the wall. In my opinion. I agree, treat her like you would any other girl. You don't need special tactics depending on her vocation. I'd just tell her I was liking the new look and get straight to the point... she's working, there's a queue behind you. You don't have time to do much else so just tell her you want to get together some time. The worst she can say is no.

Author:	Watermelon [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 1:21 pm ]
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Wait, wait, wait...it's not pickup artist style to just sincerly ask the girl out or something. I wanted to use mystery or styles methods, but I just don't know appropriate opener for bank situation. I need tease/compliment her quickly, be playful, flirting, not just ask "HI! My name is Jim, let's go and have a coffee" - LAME. I want to play this real smooth, like a real pickup artist does. I hope there won't be a line tomorrow. So, guys, give some tips! Edit: Oh, wait! I could ask her about her hair and what kind of saloon she goes to as I can't find the right barber for my hair (it's true btw). But I still need to do some little neg, so she doesn't see me as needy, then say, OH SHI-, gotta leave and get the number...somehow! Sounds nerdy, i know Edit2x: Hey, how about this guys. On leaving: "Btw - your haircut is almost perfect! What saloon do you go to?"..."Oh, cool, well I have a problem finding the right haircut (which is truth), so I would like to buy a sexy hat. I see you have good sense of style. You should help me find a good one. But I gotta run now. How about this - here give paper and pen. Be creative [suppose she writes her number]. Take paper with number Ok, see ya then (leave)" good y/n?

Author:	Second Chance [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 2:04 pm ]
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Quote: Edit: Oh, wait! I could ask her about her hair and what kind of saloon she goes to as I can't find the right barber for my hair (it's true btw). But I still need to do some little neg, so she doesn't see me as needy, then say, OH SHI-, gotta leave and get the number...somehow! Sounds nerdy, i know Edit2x: Hey, how about this guys. On leaving: "Btw - your haircut is almost perfect! What saloon do you go to?"..."Oh, cool, well I have a problem finding the right haircut (which is truth), so I would like to buy a sexy hat. I see you have good sense of style. You should help me find a good one. But I gotta run now. How about this - here give paper and pen. Be creative [suppose she writes her number]. Take paper with number Ok, see ya then (leave)" good y/n? Just make sure you don't call it a saloon, a saloon is one of those bars you see in an old western movie. A salon is where you get your hair cut. Your approach sounds pretty decent, make her laugh a bit though, somethin' like "Your hair looks good, but don't you think it would suit me more?". etc.[/b]

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Author:	Solomon II [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 2:06 pm ]
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Quote: Wait, wait, wait...it's not pickup artist style to just sincerly ask the girl out or something. I wanted to use mystery or styles methods, but I just don't know appropriate opener for bank situation. I need tease/compliment her quickly, be playful, flirting, not just ask "HI! My name is Jim, let's go and have a coffee" - LAME. I want to play this real smooth, like a real pickup artist does. Firstly it's not asking, it's suggesting. But alright, you want to be a pickup artist. It's time for a reality check... first of all there is more than one proven method and to assume that one method in particular is ideal for any given situation is ludicrous. And secondly, listening to advice from people who have years of experience is usually a good idea. Allow me to lay out the three attraction stages according to the mystery method: A1 - Open: The man approaches a set, runs an opener, and reaches the social hook point. You can't exactly apply a social hook point to someone you're dealing with in what is essentially a business transaction. But, for your sake, let's just assume that you've reached the hook point automatically by talking to her. Moving on... A2 - Female to male interest: The man demonstrates higher value, whilst simultaneously showing disinterest in the target. She responds by giving indicators of interest. From my extensive past experience with the M3 model this is most commonly achieved through the likes of telling DHV stories or talking about how busy your day has been, the latter being more suitable for the bank environment. So, you can DHV no problem. Great! You should, however, note that this entire model is designed primarily for application with groups or mixed sets, based on the premise that women of beauty are rarely found alone. With this in mind, you're talking one on one with the teller so you can't divide your attention elsewhere without looking like you're just staring around you. The whole showing disinterest thing isn't really applicable to this scenario so at the moment all you'll have done is display higher value. But, that's good enough and it's all you need to spark a little attraction so I have no real issues with that. So, what about A3? A3 - Male to female interest: The man baits the woman to become more invested in the interaction, and then he rewards her efforts with indicators of interest. May I remind you that you're in the fucking bank. She is trying to hurry things along to get to the next person in the queue before people end up queuing from outside. Banks are surprisingly high pressure environments and you'll be very lucky to be standing there alone for long. After you display higher value to her, which she probably won't be paying attention to because all people ever talk to her about is how their day is going, how are you going to step that up to getting her number without appearing somewhat direct? The short answer is, you can't. The M3 model is in no way practical for this kind of scenario because you simply don't have time to stand around and build proper attraction, so your only choice is to assume some level of attraction exists already and be direct. Looking at your edits, paying her a compliment about her hair is automatically jumping into A3, then talking about your sense of style is A2... so you're going backwards. Also, talking about how good your sense of style is may come off as arrogant so you might wanna be careful with that.

Author:	Watermelon [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 2:22 pm ]
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I wasn't thinking to say, I had good style. It was ment for me to say to her, that she has a good style, so she could help me find a suitable hat So, I am still listening to recommendations. Also, I thought I could open with a neg+compliment? Or maybe that that I have spoken to her about my card counts as I already opened with her? Please explain! Also, the bank isn't that busy. For example, there was no line today. She isn't in a hurry, from what I've seen so far. Also, I've seen other clerks chat a little with people they know not just work like robots. Ok, so if mystery method isnt suitable. What method would be?

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