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Author:  Mega5x [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 5:20 am ]
Post subject:  talking too much on messenger?
I have been talking to this person online everyday for the past 3 or 2 weeks.
ive gone up to the point where, she mimics everything i do online.
via, copying my phrases, to status changing.

ive gotten the person so hyped up, that she only goes online just for me.
say im offline. i put my status to appear offline. 10 seconds later, shes not online.

she even messages me when im on status busy and spams it.
i find it cute kinda.

we have been in a state of always talking.
she even told me she almost forgot to talk to me this one day in a sarcastic joking way.
and i told her that, "you keep a schedule on me now?"


lately ive been scared. am i supposed to be talking this long?
before it was 10 minutes a day. now it ended up 2 hours a day!
one being up till 11 o clock pm!
the conversations are great, but i have a phobia that i shouldnt be talking this often.

the questions are.

is talking everyday online a bad thing?
if i do stop talking to her everyday. how should i limit it?
how do i slowly stop talking to her often without causing suspicion.
would stopping suddenly make her angry ?
what can i do to make attraction last more efficient?

thank you for viewing my topic.
Author:  Blues [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 5:24 am ]
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Have you met this girl at all? If not, suggest meeting up immediately. I'd be careful though -- if your online game is tighter than it is in real life, she's probably going to be disappointed. Online game's entire purpose is to allow you to build attraction -- once that attraction is built, you must meet her as soon as possible.
Author:  Mega5x [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 1:06 am ]
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yes ive met her in person
lots of times.
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 1:15 am ]
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If you've not laid her yet, you want to get there as soon as possible. Otherwise, the friend zone awaits you.

Afterwards, once you've formed a sort-of relationship, manage it as you please. Just don't forget that you are a scarce resource for her, so finish the conversations first and keep them short. That is if you're interested in keeping her long-term.

Again, I don't have enough background to give you the only right course of action. How have you met, what happens when you meet up, where exactly is the relationship, how old is she, yadda yadda... ;-)
Author:  June [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 3:15 am ]
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If you've not laid her yet, you want to get there as soon as possible. Otherwise, the friend zone awaits you.
Bingo. No esculation after weeks will put the crosshairs on the friend zone. If you like this girl, esculate, my man. Apply kino. Kino is the biggest weapon you could ever use to esculate a relationship. Push it to the next level now or never.

Spending too much time talking to women is a bad idea, IMO. I always keep phone/text/msn conversations as short as possible and usually end it by pretending I've got to do something (or in case I ACTUALLY have to do something). She needs to know you have a demanding social life far beyond anything she can fathom. :wink:

Good luck with wherever you decide to go with this relationship.

-June
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