I had a similar experience years back; you wait and wait for a way to solve your problems then along comes this technique that feels like what you've been looking for and it seems like it's going to make everything perfect. Then it becomes your life because instead of having one persona you have to keep this second one which is not really you - it's like life becomes a computer where you click the icon and the same program executs everytime, same results with no unique results.
If you are going to make her first interaction with you a request for your opinion upon which you set the frame that you are looking to her and proceed to use manipulation tactics. Then there's going through all these "formalities" such as excusing, lighting candles, spitting out lines, ect which waste time and keep us from getting the results we want instantly and easily; you have to cater to her more than yourself just to get her to put out.
The whole point of learning Mystery Method techniques it to direct a woman's emotions. I believe I experienced something similar to you when I began getting tired of Mystery Method; the realization that you're nothing more than a robot who has given up his own personality in pursuit of an objective. I've had a lot of men tell me they felt like they have become more about this one giant techinque they have become than a human being.
It makes things really generic and feels after a while like a videogame with the GameShark on; you get the same result everytime and there's no varaiable, uniqueness, creativity or genuine expression.
- Chris
