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| Author: | paladien [ Sun Jun 08, 2008 10:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | always ending up introverted |
hey yall im a dreamer i can be extroverted, but when i do so and put a lot of energy into it, it feels like nobody returns this energy.. im the only one entertaining everything has to come from my side and im not getting much back from it, people do like me and love me but they just use me as dhv material what do i do wrong.. also when i do it, it feels like im giving everything to entertain a group of new friends and i dont bother them and they do like it but my value goes down. it feels like when i stop entertaining them and when im quiet and dreamy again they go like, whats wrong.. are you mad? but thats when im just out of energy and i feel like i have given it all and nothing came from their side to work on. help me out, should i entertain less ? or should i just find other friends peace |
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| Author: | Dilemmatic [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 10:37 am ] |
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Well, the thruth is. Last thing you want to do is be a one sided entertainer. People pay for stuff like that... So just get them more involved? By getting them involved more in the thing they will associate themselves more with you probably, other than like they are watching some tv show... Dont have them control your acting. Just give it in a more rewarding way. |
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| Author: | Fin [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 3:05 pm ] |
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You don't need to be extroverted to be alpha. Ever noticed those guys who have a quiet confidence about them? They keep to the background, but when they speak, it's powerful and everyone stops to listen and watch. If your natuarally introverted this may be the way to go. Otherwise engage them get them to comment puase and see their reaction, sucl them into what you are doing. It'll have a much greater effect than being a dancing monkey. |
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| Author: | Fiction dTAJIr8v [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 3:48 pm ] |
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It's BECAUSE you're entertaining others that it is one sided. You should do things that you enjoy and be excited about things that you want to do, e.g. if you enjoy paintballing, go paintballing. If you want to meet girls, go meet them. If your friends are being boring, leave them in the dust--they have the option of catching up with you or letting you go find new people to hang out with. Do what you want to do--bring them into your world. Don't try and entertain people, just give off a strong, positive vibe and people will want to be around you. |
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