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| Author: | Trevino [ Thu Jun 05, 2008 5:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to deal with this AMOG |
I have a nice current circle of girlfriends right now. Most of them are just friends although I have made out with/hooked up with most of them at least once. There is actually one that I really have my eye on and we have moved to more serious encounters. There is no secret in our group that there is 'something' bw her and I, although it IS a secret how close we currently are. Anyways, there is a new guy that has entered the circle. He is the typical 'boy-toy' guy from out of town. He is nice enough, but a total douchebag. He has started to make out with all of these girls too and the other night I overheard him ask about the girl I have something going with. How do I deal with this? Any pointers on how to show my social value outweighs his? I dont really care if he sticks around in the group, I just dont want him to threaten my potential 'thing' with this other girl. |
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| Author: | madals [ Thu Jun 05, 2008 7:22 pm ] |
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If there is already something going on between you and this girl, i wouldnt worry to much. Tbh, play it cool with him. Become his friend but make sure YOU are his leader (simple things, suggest what to do etc etc). that way, he will be looking for YOUR approval and if you already have control of this group then he will look to you to give HIM value. This does a few things, by helping him up his status (this should be done in front of every1, find something he is good at and make sure you tell the girls in your group about his talent with him there). By doing this, it makes him happy with you (hell, u just made him look good) and second it makes you very alpha because you are confident enough to help him out, ur just that confident he isnt a threat. However, make it very clear that your girl is YOURS. Simple ways of using body langue to stand between them (not obviously, but u should know what i mean). Unless he is a compleate arse, he should go after the girl u are with if u are a) his friend and b) helping him out with women and c) your his leader. Tbh, if he does, u have the social proof to make him seem like a idiot to all the girls therefore you might lose 1, but u prevent him from getting any. Assuming that has to happen, once the girl u like realises her friends arnt keen on her actions for going behind ur back, and dont like him, she will soon chuck him out. Might not be perfect for your situation, although its what i would do. /madals |
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